2006-10-19 15:45:25 · 14 answers · asked by nvsweets2006 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Family first! once you are not with that person, they are gone for good, family is forever!!
2006-10-19 16:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by sexyblackmomba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you are a man or woman, and if your teen is a guy or a girl. You see, they are stressed because you are not with thier dad/mom. Talk to them and see what they don't like about that person. Maybe your teen wants the attention to themself and feel like they will take your attention away. It's funny because I'm a woman (age 23) and if my parents ever or had ever split up I would be upset if my dad would find someone else but I wouldn't be if my mom did. I guess it's that daddy's little girl thing. Just put yourself in their shoes and TALK to him/her and see what the exact problem is
2006-10-19 22:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your teen usually overly dramatic or is this a rarity? That makes a big difference. Generally I would say you are the adult and the parent and your children should not know who you date casually and should have very little say in who you date seriously.
However, if this is out of character for your teen, you really need to lhear her out.
2006-10-19 22:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As long as the person i dated treated my teen well i would not listen to what my teen had to say....... i would live my life the way i wanted to.
Keep in mind that i do not have any children though and this is strictly an "if" question.
2006-10-19 22:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by Hilllbilly_gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask why he/she doesn't like that person! It may be a valid reason and it may not be but if you're just dating that person then I wouldn't be too worried about it!!! Some teens are just dramatic when comes to life altering decisions like mom or dad getting remarried! But if you're not getting serious with this person let him/her be dramatic!!!!
2006-10-19 22:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask your child why they dislike the person you are dateing. If it is for no real reason then date them, regardless what you child says, beacuse if you child is simply jelious you are spending time with this person, then they can grow up. But make sure to listen to them..and never leave you child alone with that other person, never allow that person to diciplen the child if you are not married, that is unfair to the child.
2006-10-19 23:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by essexsrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My family comes first. There will be time for dating when my kids are on thier own. And if I am worth the wait, the guy I was dating would be waiting for me.
2006-10-19 22:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by Mimiat41 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kids can say all sorts of things, but unless you bf is dangerous there is no reason you as the parent can not do what you want.
2006-10-19 22:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by kate b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say they got a lot of growing up to do. if they want to disown me go ahead. then i'll wait for them to come home whimpering like a pathetic dog.
2006-10-19 22:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by mystic_lonewolf22 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Basically, Tell them I am an adult and I'll see whom ever I choose. And when they are an adult I'd expect them to say the same thing.
2006-10-19 22:50:09 · answer #10 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋