Ladies please help?

Question

My wife's is way wider than mine and I do everything I know of, to get her come to orgasm. Yet, half the time she doesn't, while I of course, always. Can ladies let me know the ways that they use to come with their partners. Useful answers only.

Answer 1

In a human female orgasm, orgasm is preceded by moistening of the vaginal walls, and an enlargement of the clitoris due to increased blood flow trapped in the clitoris's spongy tissue. Some women exhibit a sex flush, a reddening of the skin over much of the body due to increased blood flow to the skin. As a woman comes closer to having an orgasm, the clitoris moves inward under the clitoral hood, and the labia minora (inner lips) become darker. As orgasm becomes imminent, the vagina decreases in size by about 30% and also becomes congested from engorged soft tissue. The uterus then experiences muscular contractions. A woman experiences full orgasm when her uterus, vagina and pelvic muscles undergo a series of rhythmic contractions. The majority of women consider these contractions to be very pleasurable, although not all sexually active women experience this.

After the orgasm is over, the clitoris re-emerges from under the clitoral hood, and returns to its normal size in less than 10 minutes.
The inability to have orgasm is called anorgasmia, ejaculatory anhedonia, or inorgasmia. In situations where orgasm is desired, anorgasmia is mainly thought of as being caused by an inability to relax, or 'let go'. It seems to be closely associated with performance pressure and an unwillingness to pursue pleasure, as separate from the other person's satisfaction. For Psychological reasons also there may be delay in Orgasm,

A recent Redbook survey shows that 52% of women regularly fake orgasms. Only 17% of women are likely to have an orgasm during sexual intercourse. 43% of women report “some kind of sexual problem” – like inability to achieve orgasm, boredom with sex, or total lack of interest in sex.
Certain drugs have been reported to have enhancing effects on orgasm. Nitrite inhalants are used by both men and women to enhance orgasm. Marijuana has been rumoured to enhance and prolong both male and female orgasms, while at the same time delaying ejaculation.GHB, GBL and 1,4 butanediol are commonly used to enhance orgasms. Stimulant, Ecstasy drug, and psychedelic like LSD users of both sexes sometimes report heightened sexual pleasure. Some male cocaine users report rubbing the glans of their penis with cocaine in order to numb it and delay ejaculation.

So you need to act wisely - by lubricating or by adequet foreplay to achieve your object. In case you are unable to achieve please consult a sexologist and take his advice and medication. It can be treated easily.

Answer 2

Hey there,
There are many natural ways to cure premature ejaculation. A proven natural method can be found on this site http://www.goobypls.com/r/rd.asp?gid=565

Recent polls have shown that the average length of intercourse is usually anywhere between 2 to 12 minutes. Most often those diagnosed with premature ejaculation climax in less than a minute or two, and there are even those who ejaculate before there is any sort of penetration. In all actuality, “too short” is really just a matter of opinion. The most important factor is if a man feels that he is unable to control his ejaculation and is frequently climaxing before he would like. Any man who feels that this is a problem for him may be suffering from some form of premature ejaculation.
Regards

Answer 3

A woman is not always lucky 2 orgasm throgh penetration,my advice which works 4 me and my partner is either urself or her stimulate her clitoris with ur fingers or use sex toys,any more info email me i always ansa.I do nt understand wot u meantt by wider

Answer 4

Your wife's what is way wider than yours? You are a man with a wife, and you use the name Eugenia? How weird is that. I chose not to answer the question because I believe it to be from a non-existent relationship.

Answer 5

For women who want to have an orgasm during intercourse, here are some positions and techniques that may help.

* The missionary position with a full pelvic tilt. This position enables the penis to reach the G-spot, the part of the clitoris that extends into the vaginal wall. Lie on your back, beneath your partner, and tilt your pelvis upward. It helps to put one or more pillows beneath your buttocks, or have your partner raise up your buttocks with his hands.
* The woman on top. This allows the woman to adjust the position of her pelvis so she can better control the friction of the penis as it rubs against her clitoris. This position also allows deep thrusting into the vagina, which can stimulate the cervix and trigger an orgasm. The technique can be carried out with your partner lying down on his back or sitting.
* Strengthen the grip. During intercourse, many women flex their pelvic floor muscles to give both partners greater pleasure. The stronger the muscles, the better you can contract your vagina and create greater friction against your partner's penis, leading to more clitoral stimulation. Try squeezing down throughout intercourse.
* Keep your legs together. This can create friction from the penis and lead to a clitoral orgasm. When your partner inserts his penis into your vagina, squeeze your legs closed and have him place his legs outside yours. Your partner can then squeeze your legs further closed with his thighs. It may help if he can shift his pelvis forward to cause pressure and friction on your clitoris.
* Stimulate the cervix. While many women don't enjoy penile thrusting against their cervix, others find it's the key to orgasm. To determine whether this technique works for you, find a position that allows for deep penetration of the penis. You might try lying on your back, hugging your knees to your chest or resting your legs on your partner's shoulders. Or, have your partner enter from behind while you rest on your knees and lean forward on your elbows. For maximum cervical stimulation, straddle your partner, facing his feet (be careful, though. This position can cause a penile fracture).

Answer 6

Ask her what she wants, shes the best guide for you... she knows what she likes and what she doesnt... get HER to open up about what she would like to try... maybe she would relax more if she felt as though she has more control over what was going to happen :)

Answer 7

Communication!!!!! Aske her to tell you what she wants you to do. If she is willing, get her in front of a mirror and get her to show you the way she wants you to touch her. Women know what we want and she should be willing to tell or show you how she likes to be touched.....Good Luck!!!

Answer 8

i could tell you but i would get reported but feathers fly

Answer 9

Too rude !!!