I started in july, for the very first time, and I spotted just a tiny bit the next month, but just a little. Now nothing, I haven't had anything and its starting to scare me. I am only 12 and I tried talking to my mom and she isn't helping, she said I would get it this month and I haven't! Please serious answers, I can't seem to calm myself down.
P.S. I know its probably not possible but could I be pregnant?
2006-10-06 14:27:45 · 22 answers · asked by Ally 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
No I haven't had sex!! Never!!
2006-10-06 14:37:31 · update #1
You're perfectly normal. Sometimes girls take a while to get a routine down, for your hormones to get in order before you become regular. In some cases, girls don't get their period on a regular basis (I usually get mine about 4 or 5 times a year). Everyone is different. What is normal for one may not be normal for someone else. If you're really worried, ask your mom to take you to your doctor. I wouldn't get too worried just yet. I think its pretty normal for a girl your age to do this.
2006-10-06 14:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by kinndee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry your mom isn't much help. First, if you are sexually active then yes you could be pregnant. Second, if your very athletic you may miss a period or two. It isn't something to really worry about unless you are sexually active and could be pregnant. One thing you may want to know is that stress can make you late. If you are worried about being late it might actually make you late. I know that sounds funny but stress can play a big part in your regularity. 28 days is the average but not everyone is like clockwork and some go longer in between.
2006-10-06 21:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by SO_wife 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHen girls first start getting their periods, it is very common for it to be irregular for the first few months. Some girls may miss it for months without reason. Give it a few months. If it does not go to a regular 4 week cycle, go see your gynecologist; birth control pills help make your periods more regular. Most likely this is not anything serious.
2006-10-06 21:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by daisylinx1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-06 21:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by Deidre~&~Joshua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way a missed period means you could be preganat is if you are sexually active. Your body maybe be trying to adjustt to this change in your life. My suggestion to you would be to wait one more month and if you still have nothing then you should see the doctor. Your doctor can put you on birth control and it will help regulate your cycles. I know b/c I had to be put on them at 15 to regulate my cycles. If you're mom won't listen to you then go to the next female you can trust maybe she can talk to your mom.
2006-10-06 21:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by arcangels_1985 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ure probably not pregnant, its possible but only if u had sex with a guy but ure only 12 so i kinda doubt that
for like the first year you sometimes skip a few months and when you do get it, its not always the same as it was last time, like sometimes it will be heavy and sometimes just light
sorry if im being kinda gross but i just wanna help
just listen to your mom, you will probably get it but if you dont then dont worry, its natural and it will eventually become more constant as your body gets used to it.
2006-10-06 21:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by mvztalestgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are okay, it happens, your young and you haven't started your regular cycles yet, which means that your not getting the monthly period yet. Don't worry it happened to me when I was your age. Well of course your not pregnant,, that is unless you had sex,which I don't think you have which keep in mind is agood thing.
2006-10-06 21:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by eld13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably nothing.
A period is often very irregular the first year.
Are you having sex at age 12? Unprotected sex? Very immature and risky!
You cannot get pregnant unless you have sex.
2006-10-06 21:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not uncommon for periods to be irregular when they first start. I definitely missed a couple of months here and there in my first year. I remember being quite glad because I didn't want them to start in the first place!
If your mother is not helping, what about going to see the school nurse or your family doctor?
Unless you've had a boy's penis (or semen) anywhere near you, you are not pregnant.
2006-10-06 21:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by Junisai 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should tell the nurse at school, or maybe even go to the doctor without your mother. I'm sure there are plenty of health organizations you can go to! I know how you feel about being pregnant. As long as you are a woman, weather you have sex or not you will always wonder that at least a little.
2006-10-06 21:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by jess l 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋