you bf or gf told you that you have to be in the house befor it gets dark and you cant got out at night you can only go out in the day time. and your bf or gf tells you what you can and not wear
2006-10-04 06:00:35 · 21 answers · asked by vanessa e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dump him/her immediately! There's no point in being with someone who is a major control freak.
2006-10-04 06:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by The Oldest Man In The World 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what! are you his slave!?! He's not your mother. Yeah you mightlove him but he doesn't have the right to control your life like that. If you want to spend most of your time out with your friends...going to the club ...maybe your not ready for a boyfriend or just find yourself a new one that will respect you and let you have your freedom.Without being in doubt.
Is he much older than you? he maybe is. They probably already been there done that. And they now have trust issues. But you dont need to be told whta to do. you are grown.
2006-10-04 06:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by blah blah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone I can be myself with, and whom will love me for whom I am.
A control freak, like the one you're asking about, will only get worse as time goes on, because they'll need to always be more controlling to fulfill that trait. Thus every time you give in, they will demand more. Furthermore, these type of people are prone to violence when they do not get their way; at first it will be mental violence, but will eventually turn into emotional and physical violence.
2006-10-04 06:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving him/her a benefit of doubt it could be that the person is concerned abt you and wants you to be safe. However the person is also a control freak else he seriously lacks the mode of loving communication to let you know why he/she demands those.
if you live in a big city it would be advisable to not stay out during the nite by yourself and not wear very revealing clothes, then i think he/she is doing out of concern and cannot express the message correctly to you. But if his/her controlling policy goes beyond these and he/she tries to control every move of yours then dump that person.
Good luck.
2006-10-04 06:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by GoodGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he means it really serious U should step out from it!!!!! whatever U love him\her if he\she loves to be the boss than U must look at ur own health (before he beats U up) or Ur own interests (friendships, menthal health and self confidence)
Just analize these thing and take a dessicion leave or stay...
U are NOT his\her PROPERTY!!!!
2006-10-04 06:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by L...A... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bf/ or gf PLEASE!!! Im a grown a** woman I have only one mom and one dad!!! Not even my husband tells me what to wear or what time to get home or step out! Wake up hunny, he's taking advantage of you! U aren't even married! U need to put your foot down, they feel like just because you love them they can control you, NOT IN MY SPACE!!!! WHAT'S GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Let him know!!!
2006-10-04 06:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new bf or gf.
2006-10-04 06:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by Your Best Fiend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EW i would kick his *** and then take off.
i know how to dress myself, and where and when i can and cannot go. and i'd like to think he trusts me, and i can trust him. if he does things i don't approve of, i'd just talk about it with him. if he doesn't change, i'd leave him. i would never FORCE someone to do what i wanted him to do, that's not a relationship. he obviously has issues if he needs to boss people around.. u have to step up your confidence and independence, and find someone who also has confidence and independence, so that Together u form a STRONG bond, taking care of eachother cuz u WANT to, not because u are dependent for someone to be there. it is a choice, not a job.
2006-10-04 06:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like being controlled and you get off on that type of thing then go for it!
Personally I dont like a guy to try and be my father so I am not into that type of thing.
2006-10-04 06:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually to answer a question with a question...is it good between the sheets and often enough for you? If it ain't good for you then hit the door with your suitcase or throw he(she) out.
2006-10-04 06:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋