2006-10-03 07:18:09 · 25 answers · asked by prettywomen512 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yep, but did you ever talk to him about that? i assume this has been going on for awhile? if that the case what are you waiting for? man & women marry for better or worst but the man not interesting in you why would you want to hang around for? you should explore the world out there and search for some one who care about you not only the sex things but also you as a wife , girl friend and most important of all who you are. there's man out there who love woman no matter what. good luck hon
2006-10-03 12:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by kevin n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow and i thought iw as the only one in this boat!
the best advice i can give you considering im in the same situation is to have a long talk with him and let him know how you feel. maybe he is unaware that it bothers you because beliave it or not my husband didnt reliaze what he was doing and how torn up i was about it. i will give you any advice i have ..so if you need to talk you can IM me, dont worry
if the talk with him dosent work than YES i would leave but make sure that youre not doing a huge mistake because if you leave and change youre mind he may not take you back so pick youre choices wisely..and once again dont be afraid to contact me....
2006-10-03 07:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by dazeaway_fromtoday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-03 17:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have actually bought porn for my fiance before, it's nothing (I'm talking regular hetero porn) not freaky, weird, illegal kind. Look at it this way, it's not like he's at a strip club, he can't touch these "women", and most of them are honestly disgusting. If you watch one of his movies you'll be like "ew, are you serious"? It doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you or think your hot. I really don’t know what the deal is with guys and porn movies (after I actually bought 2 for my fiance, he admitted he's really not into them, and he was serious too). They really are stupid movies and the girls are honestly disgusting. Like I said at least he can’t touch them. Now if he’s going to strip clubs then I suggest divorce.
2006-10-03 07:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jersey Style 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oprah did a special on men addicted to porn. And it screwed up their entire lives. You have problems if you husband is into all of that stuff. Get him some help before it is too late.
2006-10-03 07:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by katybeth212001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't leave him but you will have to get him to make a choice beteween you and the porn. I think that porn is not bad unless it becomes a necessary crutch. I would try to talk to him about it then wean him off of it and give him lots of sex in the process
ciao
2006-10-03 07:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mister S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try spicing it up a bit. What do you do together that is so great that he would be turned on. Are you turned on by him. If your first conclusion is to leave him I think that no matter what he does or doesnt do you are gonna eventually leave him. Just remember this the grass is never greener on the other side. Same grass baby.
2006-10-03 07:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by solid132 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one if you love him! He is addicted it sounds like.They only prefer it when they are .Otherwise they would have sex with a hole in the fence! If nothing available! lol .Well its time you and him talked and cleared the air about it .He needs to admit the problem then he knows you know and his chances are nill on able to quit.Im in the same situation ,If you would like to email me do ! In a nut shell you either stay with him as he is or leave !
2006-10-03 07:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i don't think you should leave him.
you should put some sexy jammys and watch a porn with him. I know girls don't like to watch porn but it can get you in the mood and doing things you don't normally do. FUN things.
try watching porn with him and see how he does with that. you never know he might not even go the the porn and come straight to you next time
2006-10-03 07:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by dido45dido 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no you shouldnt leave him what you need to do is find out what it is that you are not doing for him that these ladies in the porn movies are and once you find out take and extra step, go outside of your NORMAL routine and please your husband so that he wont have to seek that sexual fantasie elsewhere. i mean seriously after a while he may begin to seek it with another women and not the ones on the videos. it may seem weird to you right now but dont knock it until you try it. i had my man to tell me what it is he wants from me and i do all i can to please him and we are very very happy with each others pleasures. let your imagination run wild sometimes. it can turn out to be very EXCITING trust me..............
2006-10-03 08:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by twelve_play_xxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋