We are two years apart and I'm older than him. Isn't that weird enough? Soon (in a month) I'm going to be 18 and he will still be 15. Isn't that bad? I mean even when he turns 16 it'll still be bad. And sometimes I think he's retarded. We go to different schools and I don't know if he is, but it just seems like it to me. He used to be a big pot head, is that why he's like stupid? Well he's pretty smart in all but he just seems retarded. He's cute though! But yeah I don't know if I should break up with him. I'm the longest relationship he's ever had and he tells me he loves me every day and it kinda freaks me out. I don't wanna hurt him, but I think I already am. What should I do?
2006-10-01 16:27:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I do like him though. I'm just not the best girlfriend... it's sad really.
2006-10-01 16:32:27 · update #1
YES dump him. First of all what you are doing is ILLEGAL. Have a relationship with anyone under the age of 18 when you are over 18 is illegal. If his mother ever wanted to she could have you arrested, seriously.
You need a guy your age. What is wrong with you that you are going after a CHILD of 15?!! Break up already and find an 18 yr old.
2006-10-01 16:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him.At that age dating someone that long that far apart in age is kind of silly (maturity wise). And do you really see yourself with this kid a few years down the road? If not, you're wasting your time. & I doubt he just "used to be" a big pot head, he probably still is (that is, if he did it at all int he first place, pot heads don't ever Quit for good) if that bothers you, then get out. Don't worry about "hurting" him, he's only 15 and will get over it. If you're doubting the relationship, that should be enough of a sign to break up.
2006-10-01 23:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by Heathertogo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be with a guy that you talk about like that. (saying he's stupid, retarded, etc) It is best to break up with him. Good luck
2006-10-01 23:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he deserves better then put the poor guy out of his misery. You know deep down your never going to be what he needs, best do it now before lets say, you fall pregnant?
2006-10-01 23:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you boy friend is retarded, but one of you sure is
2006-10-01 23:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋