he is not talking to anyone, coz i have online access to his phone bill, he used to few months ago, but not anymore, but I know he still loves and me too, but i dont want to give in, so what should i do? I want to keep his interest but at the same time want him to fall for me...!Thanx in advance. Need your true opinion. Appreciate it.
2006-09-30 17:01:25 · 14 answers · asked by Msfunloving 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't have sex before you're married and let the chips fall where they may. It's the only way you'll find a decent man worth having.
2006-09-30 17:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do we constantly allow guys to depict the way we feel or behave.
I'm sure most of us feel that we are independent self-reliant women yet when a guy doesn't call, we feel like ****. Suddenly we are no longer confident. Does he not like me anymore? Like wat the ****. I need to get off that hook. I need to think that i can move on. I know i can but i need time. After that i want no more emotional attachments cos they eventually hurt u. But i know no matter how much u tell urself to keep things simple..it becomes complicated.
Sch is ******* stressful with mid-terms on their way and project deadlines approaching like a looming dark cloud. Life has never been this stressful and boring. It's a routine. Sch-project meeting-home. But i dun think i can handle any distraction. It'll be too hectic. But my darlings..u can come and disturb me anytime. I appreciate the asking of my well being and concern from u people. It really helps.
I just want to make sure i never fall into the trap again. No matter how shitty or boring life can be..it's still better than having ur heart heaved out of ur body and being trampled on.
When i see someone in love, i feel like yanking their heads out and filling it with hate. I wonder what's so especially abt love that one actually forgets his own identity? I'm not toking without experience..Infact i can say with much certainty that I hate the feeling of being in love..It makes u weak, vulnerable, clingy, wide-eyed, dreamy and so many other words i can come out with that associate back to being a loser.. Where's the strong, up-town, sophisticated, I-Know-i can -make-it on-my-own woman? I'm really a huge feminist.. which is why i dun give a **** abt what a guy has to offer me cos it's never enough and also i can get watever i want myself!
2006-10-01 00:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously not over him from the way it sounds, but if you don't want to be with him then don't f*** w/his emotions! Stop what you're doing and just drop him. If you need it that bad, go to the club and find someone to get laid by.
2006-10-01 00:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be one of these people who loves to reopen old wounds, because scars don't heal very well once their reopened. And I guarantee you that after the sex is done, it will just go back to the way it was. Your best bet is to sever all ties with them period. One of my ex-girlfriends said it best when she said "If you honor our friendship, please don't ever talk to me again." And it worked.
2006-10-01 00:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date for awhile....don't set a 6 month time limit.
You both will know when you're ready.
Good luck
2006-10-01 00:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by Pat K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has already fallen for you.. it's done.. but ask yourself.. do you want to be in relationship where its a game of hide and come seek.. i have lots of experience and lots of pple around me going through the same thing.. the only thing you can do..is cut off contact.. and the sooner you move on and get on with your love life.. the sooner you will find someone who you want to sleep with and someone who you will fall in love with..without games involved..
trust me.. it works!
2006-10-01 00:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by MIMSTRIK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys care for one another why did you break up? Shouldnt he be proposing? Oh I see your feelings are deeper than his. Has it been more than three months since you started dating? If that is the case it wont change...If he hasnt fallen, he wont..
2006-10-01 00:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO STOP PLAYING GAMES. , IF YOU DONT WANT
TO BE WITH HIM THEN STOP THIS NOSENSE. IF HE ONLY
CALLING YOU FOR SEX. THEN YOU KNOW WHAT HE WANT
AND WHY. HE NOT INTERESTED IN YOU BUT FOR ONE THING AND IF YOU DONT SEE THAT THEN DONT WASTE
TIME BY PLAYING GAMES. GIVE HIM WHAT HE WANT, THEN
YOU WILL SEE THAT YOU REALLY DONT MEAN ANYTHING
AND YOU DESERVE RESPECT. AND NOT THIS BULL CRAP.
2006-10-01 00:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would so do it. But you'd better let him know up front that it's just a booty call to you.
2006-10-01 00:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by queenblafalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl he is just using u for sex that is all he wants from u
2006-10-01 00:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋