that's me. after my second nephew was born a year ago, i started to think about what kind of mother i would want to be. i can even go into detail about how my kids would be punished, what i would feed them, ect...
the thing is, i'm not excited about being a mother because i know it's a lot of responsibility and time consuming.
but do you think it's good that i'm 17 and i know what kind of mother i want to be?
2006-09-30 16:12:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
And what's wrong with that?
2006-09-30 16:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the right time, if u delay u will be lost within yourself.
No one is free of responsibility. Every body is bound by it. There is no choice. There is one advantage u have, u can learn better as u have a nephew to take care of.
YOU ARE A PERSON WITH A DIFFERENT ROLE WITHIN UR FAMILY AND OUTSIDE
Daughter - u have responsibility towards ur parents.
Sister - u have a responsibility towards ur brother or sister.
B-in-Law/S-in-law - a responsibility towards ur brothers wife or sister's husband.
Aunt - Towards ur nephew.
Student -Towards ur teacher
etc etc.
The advantage is whne u take cake of your nephew u can learn a lot of things which no school can teach you. like
The beautiful eye movement of the child
Different jestures the child does
His recognition to different members of the family etc etc.
Being a mother is a supreme bliss, specially from the 5th month of pregnancy. The movements the child makes inside the womb
the response he gives by kicking or by his hands movement.
2006-09-30 23:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Venkatesh V S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nothing wrong about that, I rather think now before it gets too late. I've been thinking about that ever since I was 16 , so far things will change.... I mean I don't have any kids but once you will get older, you will know whats good for you... all I have to say and go to college.... having a baby in this world right now will be expensive...
2006-09-30 23:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by Angel G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me just tell you most women think and i do mean think they know exactlly how things will be...Im telling you from experience that nothing and i do mean nothing works out the way you expect...We have good intentions, we think that im going to do things this way and it will be perfect, well life is not a movie script and people need to learn to roll with it...Not to say by thinking ahead isnt wrong, but i tell you, until your in it and its your baby you'll never know...Hey and wait along time before having one, sleep is a good thing and so is time, enjoy being young and free...
2006-09-30 23:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew what kind of mother I wanted to be when I was 10... no harm in day dreaming about the future.
2006-09-30 23:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good to know what kind parent you want to be in the future but do not go out having sex. It nothing thinking about the future and how you want it to be.
2006-09-30 23:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with that. a lot of girls think about what kind of mother they want to be. its good that you'll know what to do when the right time comes around.
2006-09-30 23:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what, i started to think of what kind of dad i would be at the age of 13. better to dream it now than to live it now
2006-09-30 23:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by pimpdaddypain76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great. Now you just need to wait until you are ready for that responsibility.
2006-09-30 23:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by Sister Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, YOU CAN KNOW WHAT YOU WANT TO BE, BUT YOU DON'T WANT TO DO THIS AT TOO YOUNG AN AGE. TAKE YOUR TIME. ALSO, PEOPLE DO CHANGE AND YOU MIGHT HAVE SOME DIFFERENT IDEAS WITH YOUR OWN CHILDREN. THAT'S NORMAL.
2006-09-30 23:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i remember when i was seventeen, i knew everything, your an idiot you know nothing...your whole frame of mind will change like 6 times before your 24
2006-09-30 23:16:34 · answer #11 · answered by #2people 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋