im smart, pretty and all of the above. myself always keeps people on thir p's and q's. its just like i dont exist and when i do get someone to love me he does me wrong. what is wrong it is feeling like its my fault. i be all hurt inside i need advice it seems like no one cares i go through enough then have to go through a rough heart break. do boys break up with me because im diffrent or they look inside of me and say, O SHE IS NOTHING
2006-09-30 16:09:46 · 26 answers · asked by murdamisz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all you answered your own question...
"When I do get someone to love me"
Apparently you are busy getting someone to love you, you aren't being yourself. I hate when people on here ask how do I get someone to like or love me.... That is crap... if they like you or love you they will let you know. You dont get someone to love you... you act however you want in front of them and they make the decision if they like you or not.
You probably flirt and dont act yourself and when you begin a relationship with them your true self comes out and that is not the person who they started liking... so they go somewhere else.
2006-09-30 16:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being smart, pretty, and remember the next one could be the right one! Don't settle for what may not be your best match, this is a tough time to find the right friends, let alone the right mate, always remember when you know your #1 everyone will be watching and wanting you. Your opinion of you is what counts! Life is to short to dwell! I can testify to that! So believe in yourself have fun, get back in the race and win! Best Wishes!
2006-09-30 16:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Supaone19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop looking for a boyfriend... start simply dating guys... not steady dating but go date a bunch of guys... don't have sex with them... but go out and have a great time. You'll have a great time and get to meet a bunch of new people. The best part... you don't have to worry about your heart breaking again. If you come across a guy while dating that takes your breath away... then pursue him further... if not... move on to the next date.
2006-09-30 16:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, everybody has been through what you are going through. It hurts to have your heart broken. You may be very quiet, but lots of guys really like that in a girl. Just shake it off and try to be friendly. Concentrate on doing things for other people, and you will find the right guy.
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2006-09-30 16:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put yourself down so much!
If you are all that you say you are, you'll definately find someone who truly cares for you and loves you.
Let's face it, guy's are ASSES.
They cheat, lie, play you and rip out your heart then go screw some other girl.
Just continue to be yourself. You'll eventually find a guy who will treat you right and won't do you wrong.
There are nice guys out there. You just have to keep searching. <3
2006-09-30 16:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by Porcelain™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are going to be boys (well some of them), you just haven't found that right person that makes you smile and cares about you and your feelings. It will take some time so don't feel all down because you are going to find that special one and you'll be happy that you did.
2006-09-30 16:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by Angel G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is The way you Act Or The way you treat Them Or Maybe you get all the wrong guys focus on life and forget boys you'll soon fine Mr.right
2006-09-30 16:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmine A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fink dat u shouldnt wori u hve a life in front of u and if a boi really lyks u hell ask u out cuz he lykz u 4 hu u r and watz in da inside.boiz r a big problem for as and we need 2 get our mindz off it even doh itz hard 2 lol anyway dnt take it 2 hard if he breakz up wif u jst say 2 urself "he doesnt deserve me anyway"
2006-09-30 16:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's mr. right out there, so don't waste your time on other losers and what they think. no matter what, there will always be that a**. and if some guy is that a** then its not your fault. well if you are a little free spirited and just striaght out odd, that attracts alot of guys. I put green water in a bag and i gave it to this guy, and he ended up asking me out cause he said that was hot. go figure.
2006-09-30 16:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by Poo for ALL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't blame yourself, guys can be jerks especially if they don't get what they want. Just be confident in yourself and never doubt yourself, maybe the right guy for you has not come around yet. just be patient and you ll find that one who will love and respect you both inside and out.
2006-09-30 16:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by ghost_writer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋