he says he loves me and donesnt love his ex
2006-09-30 14:51:06 · 14 answers · asked by jen jen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my boyfriend
2006-09-30 14:51:50 · update #1
it means he is talking to her!! Or does going out with you mean a prison sentence?
2006-09-30 15:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean he still talks to her ?like he goes over to her house without you ?or just on the phone ... I know that I am still friends with all of my ex's and that was because we were friends as well as lovers , and just because you stop being someones lover does not mean that you need to stop being their friend . If he has not given you any reason to distrust him then lighten up , but let him know how you feel , don't brood about it and thern blow up a week later .
2006-09-30 15:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by rifraffxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what? just because the romantic dynamic changed between the two of them doesn't mean they have to throw the entire relationship away. some people make better friends instead of boyfriend and girlfriend. my ex and i are best friends, and that is all it is-no nooky or anythin-he is like my family. you no right to tell him not to speak with her anymore. instead, encourage him to introduce you to her. believe me, if there is nothing going on, he should not hesitate. you may make a wonderful new friend yourself. good luck to ya.
2006-09-30 15:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him talk to his ex girlfriend. don't dominate him but you can kinda tell him how you feel about it. that will be the true test of his love for you, if he still continues talking with his ex or not, ok?
actually, a person in love cares a lot if he do pleases or displeases his loved one.
2006-09-30 14:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you get older things like this bother you less. Why not ask him what they talk about? Do you ever talk to any old boyfriends, ever? Have you told him it bothers you? And what was his reply. If he doesn't care about how you feel I'd be more worried about that aspect of this issue>
2006-09-30 14:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is committed to his relationship with you and you ask him to stop the talking to this other person he should honor your request. If he doesn't you should be concerned. he maybe lying to you. if he wanted to talk to her he should have stayed with her. You need to tell him cut it off and if not move on. they still make men with all the same parts every where in the world.
2006-09-30 15:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by chili 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've told him that his talking to his former true love bothers you and his still does, it means he's not really respectful of your feelings. I guess I'd have to know what they talk about to know what it really means. What do they talk about?
2006-09-30 14:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, he still has a thing for his ex. He doesn't love you!!!
2006-09-30 14:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it possibly be that he enjoys being friends with those he dates? Think about it ..no hard feelings. This could revolutionize dating as we know it! BRILLIANT!!!
Yeah, i do the same thing. *shrugs*
2006-09-30 14:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you should believe him
if you want the relationship to last, you really need to trust him
its normal for someone to talk to their ex
as long as it stays "just friends"
2006-09-30 14:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋