she confided in me with secrets and i posted 1 on a problem page cause i was angry at her,a lot of people could get hurt by this an this was because i was told lies about her and i believed them instantly,wot can i do as i love her so much
2006-09-30 14:29:43 · 22 answers · asked by mano25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ur a *** HOLE
2006-09-30 14:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!
You really should have confronted her 1st instead of believing all the he-said-she-said bullshit!!! I dont think u can make this one up to her!!!!
Even if the lies u heard about her had been true that didnt give u the right to post her personal problems!!!!
If u REALLY loved her u never would have done such a thing.
Sorry but it's the truth.
Maybe u need to take a step back and re-evaluate yourself. At least u have learned a lesson here. and will be sure not to do this to future girlfriend!
good luck
2006-09-30 14:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea, but I hope someone has an answer because I have never been able to understand why people are mean and vindictive. I always thought the Lord would punish me double if I tried to get even (whatever that means) with people who have hurt me. I have no idea either how you can make amends, except to say you are sorry for what you did and ask for forgiveness. She will probably never trust you again and others who know you two might not either.
2006-09-30 14:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, you don't deserve her forgiveness!! You are one person she thought she could trust, and you betrayed that trust. You were told lies about her, and believed the person telling you, and not her. If she can't trust you with secrets as her Fiancee, then she really wouldn't be able to trust you as a husband. Ask yourself what the person that told you those lies, was getting out of causing problems between you!!!!
2006-09-30 23:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa, that was not a nice thing to do, you have a lot of damage control to mend, how could you have done this to someone you loved so much, bets me, did you not ask her about what someone told you, asked her if they were lies or what?. Bet she will never share her secrets with you again. You should explain to what happened and get done on your bended knee and apologise to her, and treat her right for the rest of your life, so start with deleting what you said on this problem page. and go from there.............good luck and god bless, hope you can work it out.
2006-09-30 16:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a lot you can do. I have made the same mistakes and lost a wonderfully awsome man. I have to live with it the rest of my life. The only thing you can do is see a councilor and maybe go in for couples counseling. Let her know she is loved. And may the Gods be with you.
2006-09-30 14:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by hoodoo_cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not a nasty piece of work you're just so much in love with someone that even though you're told lies about them,deep down it hurt you and you wondered if it 'might' be true... you're only human and we humans have a knack of believing things we're told if they're said 'so convinceingly'... no... you shouldnt have done what you did and if i was you're g/f i'd be furious with you but if she loves you as much as you obviously do her then tell her what you've done,beg for her forgiveness (and i do mean beg)then give her the space she'l need to calm down...
2006-09-30 16:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by christine301173 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause you love her so much, you obviously dont believe these "lies".
No smoke without fire....but theyre all jealous, trying to split you up...right?
Or she's a slag!
Post more stuff... let the truth come out......stuff the *****.....your so in love her you cant see it....your even here, saying YOUR in the wrong!
2006-09-30 14:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by ben b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r a bad lad jusj now keep of the computer take herout make her dinher be nice and good to her what she say gos stay a way form them people told the lies to you got to stop being a bad one now
2006-09-30 15:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by timbuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she finds out, ask for forgiveness. Most importantly, forgive yourself. Put it in the past. We all make mistakes. Don't be so hard on yourself. You beat yourself up enough already about the mistake.
2006-09-30 14:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by phantom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
retract the topic, the thing you wrote.
email the guy who runs the site and see if he will remove the, whatever you wrote.
prey to god, that one is a last choice kinda resort.
2006-09-30 14:35:21 · answer #11 · answered by IMPOSSIBLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋