I hear 80% of people would not divorce if they had to do it all over again
2006-09-27 06:08:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actually I would not only do it all over, I would do it much quicker than before. If anything now days I see more clear and am not blinded by love and that need to hold on for simply the sake of not believing divorce could ever happen to me.
2006-09-27 06:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I divorced after 11 years of marriage. We have both grown a lot since then (6 years ago) and continue to be connected because of our 11 year old daughter. My X is a wonderful person, but our personalities just don't "fit" together. We're happy apart but would be horrible together. My divorce, while the most painful experience I have ever been through, was absolutely the right thing to do for everyone involved, including our daughter, who now has two happy parents who live apart instead of two parents who are constantly fighting.
2006-09-27 13:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by ScubaGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would absolutely 100% do it all over again. I was married for 7 years, and I should have left after 2. I would never marry the jerk again, but I would definitely do it over again.
2006-09-27 13:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jan S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell YES!!! She was and still is the Worst Mother my kids could ever have.....talk about injustice..the courts in their superior thinking thought it would be best to have joint custody in our case even though the kids wanted to be with me...their lawyer Guardian at liadom said they should be raised by both of us ?? All BS.....anyways I spent every cent I had saved...401k etc. to win but came out with only joint custody....oh well the kids deserved it ...so I fought all the way till my pocket-book was empty....It was worth it......I wish only that would have won FULL CUSTODY!!! I dont care about child support from her...I wouldnt want any ...just the kids!!!
2006-09-27 14:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by fxbeto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH GOD YES! I can't see myself being married to a 6 foot tall, 33 year old BOY. While we were married, he wanted to move out of our nice neighborhood to move into a house 7 houses down from his mother (not so nice neighborhood). He's remarried now and I thank my lucky stars he cheated on me and that poor woman took that lazy S.O.B. off of my hands.
2006-09-27 13:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by vitamin D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, divorce is not to be taken lightly, but sometimes it is the right thing to do. In my case it freed me to find someone who loved me for who I am.
2006-09-27 15:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been through 2 divorces...i will not get married again...so i really don't know that option...but if i had to guess i would do if again if i had too
2006-09-27 13:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by turner32542 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I would of never married the abuser to begin with if i could do it all over again.
2006-09-27 13:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I went thru a divorce, I wouldn't get MARRIED again.
2006-09-27 13:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would absolutely do it again...my only regret is I wasted a lot of good years being unhappy
2006-09-27 13:21:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋