is it wrong for me to take my pain and hurt by sleep with different people.
2006-09-27 06:06:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You definetly do not want to go and sleep with other people, just because you are going through a bad breakup. You gotta think about all the different types of STDS that are out there and how easy it is for someone to give it you. I suggest going to parties, go out with friends, take trips....small things like that. Im sure you will find someone to make you forget about your ex. Good luck on your quest to happiness!
2006-09-27 06:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. At least not by you. Otherwise, you would've never had the insight to know what your doing is not right for you.
What your saying to yourself is that you don't want to make people suffer as a result of your breakup. In other words, put blame on other people and hurt them for something they had nothing to do with.
I understand why your doing it; you want to feel validated. We all do, but if it's going to be compulsive in bedding women to deal with that, your going to be farther from getting the truth than anything else. You've been down that road and it was lonley with no answers.
Am I right?
You've made a conscious effort in defining what your doing and kudos to you. Not everyone has the strength to face the reality of what they are doing.
What you should do is find a mentor to guide you into dealing with your conflict and to learn from a bad breakup, which is a part of things in learning how to have relationships.
Good man. You took charge and your dealing with it like a man and with maturity.
Just be sure to take a break. Gather your strength and make new changes that will give you a better outlook on YOURSELF.
2006-09-27 13:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong at all, do what you need to do to get over it. As long as you're not misleading anyone into thinking that the relationship is more than it actually is - go for it. Use your common sense, be careful, and have fun. Don't take things too seriously. Good luck.
2006-09-27 13:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing you need to do is stop running from your pain and face it .. no matter how much it hurts. when we face are pains/fears that is how we conquer them. second if you believe in god in heaven ... give him your pain. he will gladly take it away from you and fill you with peace and love ........ third.. pray to your heavenly father ..... ask him for guidance and wisdom ...... fourht .. don't give up ! .. stay in your faith .... and keep god in your sights .... you will find that once you reach your true destination .... you never knew you were even traveling anywhere .........because god guided you and carried you ......as far as the sex with other people goes ... you know that sex is something for marriage ... not outside of it ...... it is a beautiful thing given to us by god .. to be shared between a husband and a wife ....
2006-09-27 14:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by ericthemadirishman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that won't help you out it will only make you feel like garbage. Keep your mind busy a healthier way like get a new hobby or reunite with old friends. Good luck.
2006-09-27 13:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can sleep with me to help you get over it
2006-09-27 13:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and you are only hurting yourself and this effect your self-esteem. Don't do it this way!!!
2006-09-27 13:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by perplexed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋