We have been divorced for five years. I did not ask for anything in the divorce and we are still friends. And I have never asked him for help - money wise. I just don't understand it. We email each day and he is not required by law to send me a red cent, and I know I still care about him, and by him sending this money, it just blows my mind, and I tell him how grateful I am. He hasn't remarried and doesn't have a girlfriend either. Men out there please help me with this, and girls what do you think is up with this? We have no children together.
2006-09-27 06:02:23 · 20 answers · asked by docie555@yahoo.com 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is a good possibility that for some reason he holds himself responsible for the break up. I think it's his was of apologising without saying so.
You don't say what caused your breakup but perhaps the guilt he feels is his driving force to retribution.
2006-09-27 08:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficult to discern as you left out some crucial details, such as the events leading up to the divorce. From the tone of your letter, it doesn't sound like you had a bitter divorce, but quite the contrary. It could be that he cares enough for your well being to ensure that you have enough to live on. It may also be that he has hopes that the two of you will get back together again, or at least that's what I perceive. Indeed, if you were the one who opted for divorce and he didn't want that, but only went through with it because that is what you wanted, then it may very well be the case that he hopes to reunite with you later.
2006-09-27 06:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then why did you divorce???? Maybe there is something there called love, he cares about you & so do you then why not being together ????
But if you are not okay with this situation incuding the $$ he sends you then talk to hm & put a STOP if not have another chance & make things better that before maybe you were ment to be together !!! GOOD luck & best wishes !!!! :)
2006-09-27 06:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is he still cares about you, and probably still loves you. Do you have someone else? .. if not, I bet he is trying to stay in contact with you in the hope that the feelings can be re-created and hopefully get back to as they once were.
I bet you don't have anyone else, and as soon as you do he will change his tune totally, you will get no more money and he may become resentful of you.
2006-09-27 06:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by mrbeano57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he still cares for you. I don't know what your financial status is, but maybe he is somehow worried about you financially. Are the bills still in your name? Maybe he believes that he can help you financially in that aspect. If you're still clueless, why don't you just ask him out of curiosity? Although he might give you a bogus answer, it still might clue you in as to why he really does it.
2006-09-27 06:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the court docket (or tell your lawyer to tell the court docket) - that could be a court docket order, any breach of a court docket order is dealt with by ability of the court docket that issued it. be careful nevertheless, your court docket/lawyer expenditures could be better than the alimony and he might have sturdy motives and wins the case, i.e. the court docket order gets discharged and you're actually not from now on entitled to the alimony.
2016-10-18 01:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him? The question is do you have a man friend now? why does he not have a girl friend? Why did you part. One cannot answer without the full story
2006-09-27 06:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must feel guilty,dont build your hopes up about getting back with him,it will just go back to the way it was before.just spend his money and enjoy it while it lasts.
2006-09-27 06:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by dossin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he still cares about you and your welfare....i wish my ex would send me money....lol...he is very kind by doing this, if you have any objections about it, just hand it back to him
2006-09-27 06:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just helping to look after someone he loved, or still does...
2006-09-27 06:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by pixie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋