I'm only 19 years old.What should I do?
2006-09-27 05:55:32 · 12 answers · asked by Adonia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm asking you this because my friends are telling me that I should change.
And it is hard to be traditional nowadays.
Thanks! =)
2006-09-27 06:05:31 · update #1
There is nothing wrong with being old fashioned. One thing you have to be careful of is that you don't come across as unapproachable. I was the same way when I was young and I found out later that really nice guys wanted to ask me out but thought that I was not approachable. Also, make sure you are open to people who don't have all the right things in their life. Nobody is perfect. As far as guys opening the door for me, or pulling out my chair. I would love that, but, for the most part, those guys rarely exist anymore. Not because they are not great guys but because women have become so independent that the poor things are not sure what to do. Be open and honest about what you like and hope for in life. Most people would love to accommodate you.
Good luck.
2006-09-27 06:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by super_mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations to you. It is wonderful. I am totally this way. It was hard when I was your age, at times, but I was very grounded with what I felt. Hopefully you are too. People, friends, guys, etc will love you for who you are. Don't feel you have to conform to the world view of what you "should be", because you are perfect as you are.
As someone else said, you must have been raised right! I can only hope my daughter would pose a ? like this someday!
2006-09-27 06:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by Beth M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not wrong to be traditional or old-fashioned. I think it shows great character that you are wiling to do your own thing rather than follow fads. The people that truly love and respect you will respect your values and life's choices.
2006-09-27 06:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by East of Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that. We need more people like you. Our society is falling apart through the decay of values.
2006-09-27 05:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is not a THING wrong with it. It shows you were raised right and is an admirable quality in a person.
2006-09-27 05:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Be proud. Find people like you. Call yourself respectul and decent rather than old fashioned.
2006-09-27 05:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's wrong...were both in for it. lol But as far as what you should do...Nothing. You are who you are, learn to love that person.
2006-09-27 05:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by Ronijn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's not wrong.. If you don't like it then maybe you should change it, but don't change into something you're not.
2006-09-27 05:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by Abigail S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, BUT don't be afraid to change/
2006-09-27 06:07:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋