Exposing the home wrecker?

Question

what is the best and most creative way to expose someone you feel is disrespecting your marriage?

Answer 1

SHOULDNT U CONFRONT HUBBY FIRST FIND OUT EVERYTHING KICK HIM IN THE BALLS THEN GO TO HER AND HAVE THE CATFIGHT

Answer 2

Well that depends on the situation. You could try following your spouse when you suspect they're with that person. I don't know, I'm sure they are lots of ways. I would try talking to my spouse about it first, I think honesty and communication are the best way to handle any relationship issue.

Just remember, the home wrecker isn't the only one "disrespecting your marraige" - so is you're spouse. Often people are so quick to point fingers at the home wrecker. It takes TWO people to have a relationship, and the home wrecker can't wreck your home unless your spouse is letting them.

Answer 3

I wish I could answer that but I think a few mind games played on both of them for a while and a good *** kicking when the time is right should do the trick. I thought about taking out a personal add with her name and number. Just remember that by exposing her you expose the two of you and if you are keeping this private it will all be out in the open for everyone to know. Good luck.

Answer 4

The only one who can actually "wreck" your home is your spouse. If your spouse promised to be true to you then they should stand by that promise. Chances are this other woman has never promised she'd stay away from your man. Why should she? As any man lucky enough to have an attractive woman in his life will tell you, having your relationship "disrespected" is all part of the deal. It is not that someone is after your spouse that's important, it's how your spouse RESPONDS to the attention that matters. If your spouse loves you he might be flattered by the other woman's attention but he won't act on it. If he is acting on the attention, then you need to decide if you want to stay with a cheater or not. If he is cheating and you somehow get rid of this current "other woman", he'll probably just find another to take her place.

Answer 5

Be careful. You'd be giving her a defamation case. You can't prove "disrespect." And the more you try to expose her, the more people would think you're nuts. People simply don't care about your marital problems, and they blame the betrayed spouse all too often. Also, you would just be challenging other homewreckers to "take better care of your husband." Don't roll with pigs; you'll get muddy.

The real problem is at home. Hate to break the news, but it is your husband who should, out of respect for his wife and integrity, be more concerned about the potential "homewrecker." Why does he make good "homewrecker" bait?

Answer 6

Not knowing the situation don't help; but, if someone was disrespecting my marriage to the point of destruction, I would be blunt and straight forward about the matter! I would confront this person in front of your spouse and let this person know that the gig is up! Tell them to keep their sny remarks and comments to themselves and if they continue to be rude and disrespectful that you have no desire to let them continue to take part in your life or home activities ever again! In other words tell them to butt out and stay as distant from you and your marriage as they possibly can! Good Luck!

Answer 7

Hey!! I asked that questions so much times, But hey were not the losers they are. We're not the person who broke the marriage it was the both. It depends if she knew about the marriage, she has no respect at all, like with me she knew that we were a family of 6 and they both got together. with me I still want to kick the hell out of that b***h but is she worth it, to me I just kill her with kindness but maybe one day she'll have the piece of me. When I see that other person I just give her a smile or just stare like you wait Im going to get u someday. If you want to talk more email me, [e-mail]
Good Luck if you do anything fill me in......

Answer 8

I have faced this too. IGNORE Both Home wreckers - that includes your spouse. You spouse allows it, he is 'guilty' as well. Brilliant minds these "home wreckers" have hoping that you will explode. However the less attention they get, the quicker they lose their happy. Find peace within yourself and do not give the home wrecker the attention they so desperately crave.

Answer 9

Considering it takes two people to be married I do hope you are talking about exposing your husband rather than the person you assume he is sleeping with.

Answer 10

If you have really stone-hard solid evidence like photos, videos, snapshots - invite her to a party and invite her co-workers, her family, common friends, etc - then announce it to everyone using a microphone and large speakers, a large projector as well ......with a smile. Here's a line you can use - I'd like to thank everyone for showing up tonight, its a special occasion for me and my husband who's celebrating something quite extraordinary tonight. Before we wrap up tonight's affair, I'd like to show you some photos - then just show it on the huge projector - and when the shows over - say: By the way - that ***** with my husband is XXXXX and she's standing right over there. And to my husband - expenses for tonights event came out of your credit card. Good night everyone!!!

Answer 11

Don't dignify it with an answer. Cease all association with her. If others approach you regarding something she may have said, simply reply: "Is that right?" and change subject and walk away. Don't sink to her level. She will soon expose herself.