I am very open sexually wise, and I am willing to do many things, but I am afraid my husband will think I am some kind of slut... or will he enjoy these adventures as much as I would? EX: role playing outfits, having sex in public places, watching porn, etc..
2006-09-27 05:40:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would. Let's play
2006-09-27 05:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I was first married, my husband and I both came to the marriage virgins. (yes this was mannnny years ago),I would come up with different things to try, and suggest going to porn movies together. My husband was rather upset...seems he couldn't figure out where I was coming up with this stuff! After I assured him it was from talking to the older more experienced women I knew he was all for trying anything I came up with!
It's not that your husband will see you as a slut, as much as that he may worry that you want more than he can give, that may cause him to act out. Reassure him that any sexual adventures you suggest are for both of you to enjoy together.
2006-09-27 10:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by arosehasthornns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, that if hes participitaing in these acts with you....then he loves it. I am also a very opened minded person about sex. I feel you have to atleast try everything once and get a feel for it....If you catch my drift. I say keep doing what your doing. If you really want to get this **** thought out of your head...then casually bring it up. Your best bet is he will get hot.......and your intimate convo will lead to other things ;)!!!
2006-09-27 06:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter your married ! Every guy loves a l slut ! I love women who dress/ act like sluts in the bed. I had a old girlfiend who would dress in slutty outfits and heels for me all the time. I could wait to get her home after a date ! She was a total animal in bed ! Get some **** me shoes, lingerie, stockings and long nails and surprise him !
JJ
2006-09-29 10:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by Jeffrey G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being adventurous in the bedroom. I think most men would be grateful to have a women like that.
2006-09-27 05:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got married and you don't know this about him? Is this a real question?
You have an important part of you that could lead to discontent in your marriage and you've not discussed this?
Sorry, but you and he really really need to sit down and talk. You need to discover all these basic things about each other.
2006-09-27 06:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that he will think less of you or see you as a bad woman. He may very well enjoy it and it may spice up your life.
However make sure you dont get to where you cant do with the norm.
2006-09-27 05:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by Shalamar Rue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and tell him.....if he's like most guys, he will jump at the opportunity to play along. I know I would have IF my wife was like that, which she isn't and now won't even put out at all.
2006-09-27 06:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could only be that if you want to include others in what should be sacred between you and your spouse. Talk with him and see what he really thinks. You won't know unless you ask. For all you know he may harbor similar secret fantasies and would welcome the opportunity to explore with his wife.
2006-09-27 06:22:05 · answer #9 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are generally not prudes. They are open to many adventures. It may be something he will do for/with you but not everynight. Go for it
2006-09-27 05:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can only wish for someone like , he is nuts if he does not like that sort of thing. women like u are 1 in a million, can i trade my g/f 4 u.
2006-09-27 06:15:44 · answer #11 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋