Just wondering. If a man is going to be abusive,does he ever start late in the relationship or will it occur early on?Could he just decide 10 years down the road he thinks women should be abused?
2006-09-27 05:39:30 · 21 answers · asked by TrofyWife 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It can happen at any time. No woman deserves to be abused, whether it happens quickly in a relationship or 50 years into it!
2006-09-27 05:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am pretty sure men can become abusive at any time in a relationship, circumstances change and boredom, frustration and stress can all push a previously steady man over the edge.
However i would be surprised if after 10 years his partner had not got some insight into how he handles pressure remember shouting and bullying are abuse to.I f its happening to you seek help wait until he is very calm and happy and carefully bring it up that you think maybe your relationship needs help, dont blame him at first or else he might just refuse point blank, if he becomes violent then get out right away don't put up with it, it's not right and its not fair you deserve a happy safe life x
2006-09-27 12:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by sister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man has the tendency to be physically abusive, it will show its ugly face sooner than you think. If it was dormant for 10 years and suddenly came out in the open, there's something mentally wrong with him because no matter how much of a b*tch your wife is - no man has the right to hit her or even abuse her. That alone, should she decide to sue the guy for physical abuse - can land the guy jail time so he can get abused from the rear in the can.
2006-09-27 12:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will usually see signs early on in the relationship. Sometimes it will come in the form of control, or verbal abuse. It can and usually does escalate into physical abuse.
I was in a relationship for two years. Thing were great for about 1 1/2 years and then he became controlling. The physical abuse began a few months later. It was awful!!
If you are concerned about abuse, you should seek help immediately. It can and will escalate quickly!
2006-09-27 12:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be at any point in the relationship. Things like are unpredictable but if it ever starts, leave him! Do not fall into the typical trap "He said sorry so I'll forgive him", if you hear that, it is obvious that thye have a liking for abusing women and it WON'T stop no matter how many times he apologises.
Keep you guard up!
2006-09-27 12:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by babybitch69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think from the beginning he would show some signs of abuse, though not physical. Thats kind of a way to trick you into thinking hes a good guy.. More than likely if you knew he was going to be physically abusive you wouldnt marry him.
2006-09-27 12:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not something that is just decided. It has always been there. He has thought of it but didn't do it. It starts out with words and then can got to raising his hand but not hitting. Then one day he decides that he is tried of fighting it and why not, once won't hurt. The only thing is that most of the time it is not just once, it happens more and more.
2006-09-27 13:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abuse can start anytime, But if any man beats up on a woman, He aint a man, He:s a coward, Yellow belly, Scum sucking dog,Not a man. never will be,. Hasnt had his *** beat by a real man. Cant fight a man, has to use women for a punching bag,He thinks it makes him a big man.
2006-09-27 12:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by mswildman2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can happen at any point in a relationship but there are usually warning signs early on.
Do some research on the net about abuse.
When in doubt...GooGLE it =)!!
2006-09-27 12:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by Bones 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it could come at anytime . For me it always came early on in the relationship.
2006-09-27 12:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋