I honestly hate it.People think I'm frigid and its not true.
Everytime someone wants to talk with me I blush.
I'm an excellent student and have a few friends.
Don't get me wrong,I'm not Quasimodo or anything like it.=)
I should really change my personality.
Your advice?
2006-09-27 05:33:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
be confident.. you just said that you're not like quasimodo...think positive..you also said that you're an excellent student..so, be confident and dont be shy to show what you really are... you should accept yourself before they accept you..show em what you got..try to get rid of your shyness
2006-09-27 05:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by broken` 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:) the more u work on urself, the better u will feel. *trust me*.
so having said that, work on:
1) your appearance: work out. exercise. take care of ur body. take care of ur skin. get new haircut. try on new clothes. buy Flattering, stylish clothes, make u feel good and look good.
2) your mind: study. read more. learn more about current events. find a hobby, and excel at it. the more u KNOW, the easier it will be for you to develop your own ways of thinking, as well as be able to TALK w/ others about it.
3) your relationships: as u build ur confidence in urself, and keep in mind to be Open Minded, Non Judgemental to others..... u will be able to speak out more, talk to ur friends, family members, practice talking about anything and everything u are learning, or find out what they are interested in. the more u practice, the easier it will be for u to do that with Strangers, or friends of friends, and not feel as shy...because remember, 1 & 2, u are already working on ur appearance and your brain, so u don't have as much to be "scared" about.
:) good luck...the more Positive attitude u have (remember, u can Always change something if u make a mistake, u can learn from it, u can always grow, and do something different tomorrow), the more opportunity u will have in ur life. confidence will lead to easier job interviews, class discussions, making friends, getting to know teachers, etc etc.... huge impact on ur life. but getting over ur shyness is the first step, and working on ur confidence will help u become less shy.
2006-09-27 12:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to be you! I'm now 28 and still shy. Not half as bad as before though. I know it's hard, but keep your chin up because you are a refreshing change, not everybody feels as confident as they appear. Anyway, don't try to change who you are, with time it just happens!
2006-09-27 12:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by Rebecca V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something that you should do that I finds really works and it's simple, change your attitude to outgoing. Someone asks you to do something that you could never work up your nerves to do .....do it. Like speaking in front of a large crowd of people......being a leader of a large organization........ ETC. It's all in the head.
2006-09-27 12:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to relax around people just be confident about who you are.
It is better to have few and true friends than to have a lot of ppl who dont care about you.:)
2006-09-27 12:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by sunlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try new things be outgoing and try speaking in front of large groups thats how i started
2006-09-27 15:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by latinagurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was like you once and start talk to other peoples beside your friends and go out alot it will happen you to broke out
2006-09-27 12:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be shy just let it all out and say what you want to say it doesnt matter what anyone thinks
2006-09-27 12:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by megan_banks1996 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself.the right guy is out ther who will find you.
2006-09-27 12:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by dona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you have to change your personality...
2006-09-27 12:35:52 · answer #10 · answered by md m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋