What should I do? sexually and mentally
2006-09-27 05:31:23 · 17 answers · asked by june71969 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I will tell you what my husband did for me and did it work? Oh Yeah! I came home from work and he had candles lit and soft, relaxing music on , the lights low. Then he sat me down and took off my shoes, he had put hot water in a tub and put my feet in to soak for awhile. Then he rubbed my feet for me, I tell you what, I could feel myself melting away all the stress of the day. He had went and got something out to eat and brought home and kept in warm in the oven. (So we didn't have a big mess to clean up later.) We had wine and talked through dinner with out gripping about the day, actually talked to each other.Then he ran us a tub of warm water and took a bubble bath together, with wine and candles and just sit and talked and laughed about silly things, until the water got cold. Then he gave me a back message with warm oil and well, you figure out the rest!!!!! All a woman needs every once in awhile is a little attention from the man she works so hard for. See we're not so different after all, but viva the difference! Plus it's more personal if she knows you used your imagination, to think up something just for her. You know what she likes get her a treat, and treat her special and it comes back to you. That's the secret.
2006-09-27 06:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by Joner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First: Wear something your wife likes to see on you - an outfit you know she likes.
Second: Make a meal you know she loves and make it well. Also do a dessert for a surprise.
Third: Before she gets home, program the CD player with a few of her favorite CDs and throw in a romantic one as well.
Fourth: When she walks in the door, have a drink or some wine ready and the music on. Let her change into her comfortable clothes and then have her sit down and provide your undivided attention while she sips her wine and tells you about her day.
Fifth: Feed her the well-prepared meal and surprise her with dessert.
Sixth: Do all the clean-up.
Seventh: Let her decide what she wants to do for the evening and be happy with whatever that decision is, but let her know that you want to spend the time with her.
Finally, when it gets later, pick her up and take her into the bedroom and put her on the bed, tell her how much you love her and why - think about the particular reasons while you are preparing for the evening - and then slowly romance her paying special attention to features you adore in her. Make the entire experience all about her and don't make her do any work. When you have finished doing the romantic dance, get up and run a bath and bath or shower together. Then go to bed and do it all again the next night. HA!
2006-09-27 12:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to dinner where the waiters push the chair in for you, and theres cloth napkins. (signs of class)
Get a friend to spread a nice fluffy blanket and all the pillows in the house on the living room floor. And candles on solid surfaces at least a few feet away (house fires are not romantic).
Make sure you have a bottle of wine or champagne (or whatever you both enjoy) in the fridge, with a good dessert to share.
Make sure some good, slow jazz or instrumental music is ready on the cd player.
When you come home, pour her the bubbly, get the dessert out and just tell her exactly what it is about her smile that enchants you. And why you can't get enough of her laugh. And how addictive her smell is. And what attribute of her personality impressed you the most when you first started dating. Talk to her, ask her things that you asked her when you were dating, to find out more about her. See if the answers have changed. Women like to be pursued. To be sought out and admired.
Have fun!
2006-09-27 12:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL SPEAKING THAT I DOTN NO U NOR UR WIFE ..I WOULD LUV TO HAVE A STARLIGHT DINNER OUT IN THE EMPTY FEILD .....JUST GAZE UP AT THE HEAVENS AS WE EAT STEAK AND LOBSTER AND ENJOY CHAMPAGNE ,,,TO REALLY GET FEEL FOR THAT IS OUT THERE AND THEN SAY TO UR WIFE I THINK MY LUV FOR U RIGHT NOW COULD FILL ALL THE SPACE IN SPACE ..........THEN MAYB PRESENT A PRESENT LIKE A NECKLACE OR NEW VACCUM ....THEN ITS OFF TO HOME FOR A SURPRISE WHERE BE FORE HAND U HAVE SET OUT ROSE PEDALS LEADING THE WAY TO A ROMANTIC BATH FOR 2 ......OR 3 DEPENDS HOW FREAKY U ARE ...ANYWAYS YEAH FLOWERS AND A HOT BATH ALWAYS GETS EM IN THE MOOD O YEAH AND ALSO HAVE SOME PURE COCCA CHOCOLATE NEAR BY CUS THAT IS AN AFRODESEAC ? A NATURAL STIMULATOR ...........THAT REALLY GETS EM WET ..... THE BATH DOES I MEAN ..................I HOPE U CAN TAKE IT FROM HERE I WOULD TELL YAH SOME OF MY SECRETS BUT HEY A BROTHER'S GOTTA GET SOME TOO ..................
2006-09-27 12:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a babysitter for the kids.
Then take her out to a romantic dinner on a very fancy place. Don't ask her where she wants to go, please.
Go to a romantic bed and breakfast or a suite in a nice hotel and spend the night. Champagne please.
Give her a gift. Women love that. No appliances or nothing for the house. Something for her!
Good luck. You are a very thoughful husband.
2006-09-27 12:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mentally make her feel like the queen she is. If she works have a bubble bath ready and an out fit to chance in (something she would wear to go out in). In the bathroom have rose pedal laid out nicely in the tub and around the tub with candle light or natural light from out side. Or if she takes shower a path leading to the tub. (You can get real rose pedal or fake ones from Wal-mart or a craft store). Have dinner reservations already done and a nice place. Or if at home make her one of her favor is. If you can't cook order in..
And sexually make that night all about her make love to her physically and mentally. And you think of the rest. Good Luck!
2006-09-27 12:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by erilso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about plan a spa nite for the two of you with you rendering a total spa experience as a service to her. that will be awesome! You could do a number of things of all. here are some tips: wash her hair, give her a foot rub and /or pedicure (put some rose petals in the water that you soak her feet in (she will love it); allover body massage using aroma therapy essential oils, cook candlelight dinner (keep it simple) or get a hotel suite w/ a jacuzzi (that idea isn't as unique though) Good luck to you hope she enjoys it!
2006-09-27 12:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by Say It Again M'am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy rose petals and out them all over the house. You could make a trial to your bedroom. Light a bunch of votive candles and scatter them around. You could also get somet scented bubble bath and make a bath for the two of you. You can start out the night by eating dinner naked!
2006-09-27 12:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by kristina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Greet her at the door and lead her to a hot bath with candles, chocolates and some wonderful bubble bath. Help her undress and leave her to relax while you finish preparing a wonderful, candlelit dinner. After dinner, give her a sensual massage to help her relax even more and make sure she knows how much you love and appreciate her. Believe me, it will lead to a wonderful evening for both of you!
2006-09-27 12:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so sweet! Whatever you do, make it all about her and go above and beyond...Candle lit dinners are always nice, a bottle of wine and a nice dessert... And then play a little game in the bedroom...
2006-09-27 12:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋