No, I didn't cheat. The past couple of weeks, we had arguments where I acted really immature. I promised several times that it wouldn't happen again, but different events arise and unfortunately it does. She was in a 3 yr. relationship before me and he acted immature all the time, thus making it harder for her to trust me. What can I do to reassure her that she can, indeed, trust me to control my immaturity? We've only been dating for 3 months, and I understand that it's a love that has lots of room to mature. She was the first one to tell me she loved me, she's done alot of stuff for me to prove her love, and I have yet to act. Tonight, however, I have dinner planned (ALL OUT). I've got a custom made turkish suit i'm going to wear tonight w/o telling her I'm dressing formal. Anyways, I'm preparing a candlelit dinner. So, to recap...what can I do to reassure her that I can control my immaturity, and what are good ideas for what I should do tonight?
2006-09-27 05:27:21 · 4 answers · asked by Stewie Loves You 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be a total gentleman..no immaturity allowed. Treat her how you think she should be treated.
FYI. You shouldn't change your immaturity as it is a part of who you are..its a lil quirk not a problem. You want to live life not just exist. Personally, I wouldn't change because if she said she loved you then obviously its a lie.
When people say "I love you", it means they love YOU and EVERYTHING about you...she has to learn that as I doubt she has changed herself? Why doesn't she learn to lighten up and relax instead of being mature...ITS NO FUN!!!!
2006-09-27 05:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by babybitch69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the way you think. What you're doing is an excellent idea! Invite her in, and explain to her that you have prepared a special dinner for her tonight, because you two need to talk. When you finally sit down for dinner, start off by telling her how much you care for her and how you would never hurt or just plain tell her exactly how you feel. Look her deep into her eyes, take her by her hand and explain that the way you acted was completely out of line and again you deeply want to apologize for what happened and you can assure her that it will never happen again. Of course, this will only work if you mean it and can keep your word. Tell her that you cannot change the pass, but you apologize for the way you acted. Tell her you would like to overcome this obstacle in the relationship and would like to move forward to try and make things better. And lastly, genuinely ask for her forgiveness.
If you want to make the night extra special, make sure romantic music is playing in the background. After dinner, display your feelings by offering to do something generous for her by offering her a massage. The night should go smoothly thereafter.
2006-09-27 12:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's definitely a very good start. just keep on going like that (though not to often) go places with her and thing like that and never forget to mention how much you love her.
2006-09-27 12:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by reby2791 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you didnt cheat and say it was not your fault
2006-09-27 12:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by megan_banks1996 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋