It always seems like this is a first year only activity. Is that true?
2006-09-27 05:24:45 · 21 answers · asked by Luis LU 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know about the first year activity thing perhaps the man is More romantic the first year?
You must remember that females are not stimulated sexually visually. If they were we'd have as many magazines with nude men in them as you do with nude women. Right? I'm not saying she isn't attracted to you. I am saying just seeing a mans naked body doesn't make most woman want to jump him. Be romantic. Talk to her, Don't tell her while you are having sex. Talk over a romantic dinner or something like that. Tell her how much you like it. Maybe she doesn't realize how important oral sex is to a man cause most females can live without it forever. Communication is very important. A woman does not think like a man and can't. Read "Mars vs Venus" Excellent book. Good luck!
2006-09-27 05:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over time, if it is something she doesn't enjoy then it will disappear. Same could be true for you returning the favor. If you both enjoy it, then it will continue. Try to be sure that there aren't other factors involved, like she's too tired from chasing the kids, doesn't have an upset stomach, etc.
Some women love it. Some hate it. It depends on the woman. And of course, some women don't like it, but love the reactions they get.
2006-09-27 06:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by jenn_jenn02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not true...
Make sure that you are doing what you can to make things "appetizing".
Are you clean? Is what you are drinking (like too much beer) affecting your taste negatively? Maybe drink more water and fruit juice if you want to sweeten up.
Also - gain her respect. That's the big thing. Go the extra mile in other areas, and things will even out. That is, of course, unless she never really liked it in the first place.
2006-09-27 05:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by RoseRed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a SUPER question. Yeah, I think when you get bored with the guy even if he does provide good sex and especially if it is your husband you kinda don't want to.
It is a subserviant thing. A woman will do for a REAL MAN always.
2006-09-27 05:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by Shebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 6 years and was with him for a time before then and let me tell you that I have no problem providing oral on him anytime he wants and I enjoy it.
2006-09-27 06:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the joke ???? Why does a woman smile so big on her walk to the alter on her wedding day ???? Because she never has to give another BJ !!!!
But that is of course just a joke. My gf loves doing it and it gets her hot and super wet so I guess it just depends on the person. we've been together almost 4 years and it just keeps getting better and more frequent.
2006-09-27 05:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are excusing their lack of interest by blaming the spouse. i imagine that by 35 a lady has a special theory of reliable sex and her sexual desires. She is searching for something better gratifying on many levels quite then taking pot success opportunities with each and every stumble upon. adult men have a tendency to stay with the tried and examined attitude. 'hi if it worked at 18 that is going to artwork at ninety 8' way of wondering. no longer reliable.
2016-12-02 04:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I have married for 7 years and I love to give oral sex to my husband. Almost every night.
2006-09-27 05:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are ya showing her respect, working hard, taking out the garbage? I don't know there are many reasons why it doesn't stay the same. Some get into it and some don't. Maybe she's bored, Try some new things and she may reciprocate! Act frisky and playful, you know like when you first met.
2006-09-27 05:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on how fast he loses interest in her. The sooner he stops paying attention, the sooner the lock jaw seems like less fun:)
2006-09-27 05:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋