husbands wallet. When I asked him about it he said he was just drawing and didn't remember who this phone number was for. He works all of the time and is very short tempered with me and then tells me and other people that I am nasty. When he is with me he is on the phone or getting calls. His job does require him to get phone calls frequently but not all of the time. I am feeling insecure and when I tell him about it, he tells me that I am being stupid and that he loves me, what do you think?
2006-09-27 05:18:01 · 19 answers · asked by georganne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Any man that draws hearts is probably gay. Dump him.
2006-09-27 05:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by ready4it45 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Since when do grown men with jobs doodle hearts on a napkin?
Seriously, do you hear yourself? You have to realize that just because he is busy doesn't give him the right to have an affair; that is probably going on right now.
Call that number from a payphone or block your number and see who picks up. If it sounds like a woman that would be pretty, then you know something is going on.
If he is calling you nasty to your face and telling other people you are then why do you continue to stay with him?
He doesn't respect you if he is putting out your personal life and arguments to all of his buddies. The two of you need to talk and if his short temper gets in the way, well then... it's time to leave.
2006-09-27 05:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine drawing a heart on a napkin with a phone number. Call the number & find out who it belongs to. I think he's probably cheating or thinking of it. He shouldn't call you nasty when you ask a question. Make sure you are happy with who you are, have good self esteem and be ready for what might happen when you confront him. He is wrong, not you.
2006-09-27 05:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clients dont draw little hearts under their names!
If he is that big of a smartass.... call the number in front of him and see his reaction
You can search the number on certain websites if its a home number and it will give you the persons name and address. Also check his cell phone records to see if that number pops up anywhere on the bill.
Be careful where you go digging.........you might find something you dont want to know. And when you do...you better be ready to back up what ever threats you are throwing.
PS. heres a website to a number look up...there are loads out there. http://www.anywho.com/rl.html
2006-09-27 05:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by texasmiss2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He calls you nasty, because you are a very jealous person. Jealousy is one of the forms that fear takes, and it is fear, not hate, which is love's true opposite. Thus each time you act jealously, you are putting out non-loving vibrations.
However he is giving you reasons to be jealous. It doesn't matter whose phone number it is; he's lying, and that's all that really matters. Has he cheated on you?... Maybe, but if he hasn't, he's thinking about it. However, you need to ask yourself if you will definitely leave him if he does?
Don't act jealous anymore [pretend if you have to]. Don't question him about anything you might suspect him doing. All your jealous actions will not stop him from doing what he is going to do, but they will cause him to conceal those actions all the more. Thus, give him enough rope to simply hang himself. For either he is faithful, or he is not faithful... at least you will know.
2006-09-27 05:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it were my husband I would tell him either we were heading to a therapist or he was leaving. It is absurd to me that he expects you to not care that you found that napkin with a heart on it. How would he feel if he found something like that in your purse? When they get mad at You for something like this its because they are guilty. Their anger deflects their guilt - cuz 9 out of 10 women will back down when a man gets mad. I'm one of them.
He may very well love you - but that does not mean he is not cheating.
2006-09-27 05:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the number and find out who is on the other end.
saying youre stupid and that he loves you, in the same sentence, is not loving. Tell him that you are unwilling to play detective in order to ensure he is committed to his marriage vows, and that you want a straight answer. Don't get hysterical and try not to bawl, but talk to him in a calm manner to set the tone of the conversation. Tell him that his behavior worries you and that if his behavior does not change, then he is contradicting himself.
2006-09-27 05:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a friend to call the number and when a woman asnwers, give her hell!!!! You go girl. Since he calls you nasty - might as well live up to it then divorce him as soon as possible. He's cheating and he ain't worth any tears for that matter.
2006-09-27 05:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your husband probably has a guilty conscience especially when you call him out on it. It is easier for him to "justify" his actions (calling you names, being mean to you) if he can somehow turn the situation into your fault. Go with your gut instinct. If you are asking these questions then you probably already know the answers.
2006-09-27 06:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by angb752002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating, get copies of all phone records and his computer records. Confront him and then ask what he wants to do.Do you really want herpes or AIDS from some S*** he slept with????
Make sure you get a good divorce settlement in any event.
2006-09-27 05:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not trust him. He knows where that number came from. Call the number. He is cheating. You don't need him anyway, leave him.
2006-09-27 05:45:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋