my mother had her bfs rape us when we were younger and dhs (department of human services) got involved i told them that my father raped me cause my mother coached me into telling them so i would get him in trouble when he has never even touched me ever in a wrong way now his side of the family hates me to this day! but he thank god has gorgiven me when all this happened i was 6 or 7 years old!my ? is why should they hate me for something i had no control over i was young ?
2006-09-27 04:57:46 · 11 answers · asked by lita 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you dont have to feel bad...as long as your dad forgives you,, have you try to talk to his family and explain? I think that you should fix things up with the DHS and tell them the truth,,, your dad was hurt and I dont blame his family but you were a little girl and that was your moms fault,, Im sorry but your mom is not a good mom,, your mom needs to be punished for defending her bf ,, Did she ever apologized to you? I know thats your mom and gods says we shall love our mom and dad no matter what ,,but your mom is evil,,,
2006-09-27 05:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother , im sorry to sy, is sick in the head.
You were raped by her boyfriends?????
Have you seeked counseling and do you still talk to her.?
As for your father's family, they're not ready to forgive. Give it time. What's most important is that your father forgave you
2006-09-27 05:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by triciasdish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but im sorry about what hapened to u but u shouldnt be puttin urself out like that! i mean thats really personal talk to a counselor or something. and its not like ur whole family hates you im sure someoone out there loves u.
2006-09-27 05:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by sxyltchiqi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man, that's terrible, you should tell the family nicely that you were still young and do not know much, ask them to understand, but your father has forgiven you so it should be enough for you
2006-09-27 05:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by ##$SoulStryker$## 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea..thats not right. But if his family is like that why would you want them in your life anyways? They don't sound like they are worth your time.
2006-09-27 05:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate them back. That works for me.
2006-09-27 05:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by daveyboyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mother is a freak you should cut her off from your life and pray she dies soon so you inherit the family trailer.
2006-09-27 05:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by @ubreY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them what happened. sorry for such a messed up family life oh yes kill your mom too.
2006-09-27 05:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
be grateful that your father loves you - everything else will work itself out
2006-09-27 05:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by gabby 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They hate you but shine and they like you. Mn you have a ruff life there. Sh*t I can imagine what you been thought ......................
2006-09-27 05:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋