Someone I know met a guy and then subsequently left her husband. This guy has a wife and Children, but has yet to leave them. If she's his mistress, what is he to her?
2006-09-27 04:50:09 · 44 answers · asked by Alex M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A childish coward.
Any adult that has to seek around is the lowest of the low in my book.
You want you have a new relationship. Fine, just don't do it behind your present lover's back. This show little respect for the lover and no respect at all for yourself.
2006-09-27 04:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mistress was once a straightforward word for a woman who had control over servants or was the acknowledged head of a household, or was the possessor or owner of something. The word was just the feminine form of master (both words came to use from Old French and are not recorded until the fifteenth century). Later still it became a courtesy title, sometimes formalised as in Mistress of the Wardrobe, and also came to be a term for a female teacher, among several other usages.
So she owns him in the sense of having control over him..... I guess. That makes him servile to her..... So is he a servant? Yes, a
sex servant,
because that is what it is all about - as he has a wife, his relationship with mistress must be centered around sexual activity. What else can they do...have kids together, raise a family, go to restaurants? Retire together? Go to movies? Nope ---- they are restricted and mistress is in control of his p........!
SO I say he is a sex servant!
2006-09-27 05:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by meldorhan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well at least the woman had the balls to end her relationship with her husband, as for this guy he's just a user until he does something more positive like leaving his marriage for the other woman and concentrate on his new relationship or break from the other woman and concentrate on his marriage.
" A user" is what he is because he is using both woman and taking advantage of the whole situation.
What is he to her? He's a "NO BALLS USER"
2006-09-27 11:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A complete tw*t! If he hasn't had the bal*s to leave his wife and kids, then he's a waste of time and energy.
She will be better advised to either go back to her husband or to dump this guy and start a new life on her own
2006-09-27 04:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder what this guys wife would reply to this question if she knew?? this guy is her lover, I hope she knows he probably won't ever leave his wife and kids for her, otherwise he would have done it by now, soon he will say he needs to wait till after xmas, then it'll be one of the kids birthdays etc; etc; etc;
2006-09-27 04:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by pottydotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a link!
2006-09-27 04:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by hot chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's nothing.........
it does mean anything,he doing it for sex,because his not man enough to work on is relationship that he goes cry in someone
arm,and then he say's it's not my fault we grow apart,so he look
for someone that make him feel good,that make him a man
but what she does'nt realize is the day they get caught she
will be nothing to him,trust me,they will get caught and he will
be on is knee's begging for forgivness and if you know that guy
very well tell him to get out or put out,because it does'nt make you a good friend either if you agree with it..
isabelle
2006-09-27 05:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a damn thing. He has a wife and children and hasn't left them (and probably isn't going to). All he's giving her is stiff dick and bubblegum.
2006-09-27 05:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♪ TrickNice ♪♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bank roll
2006-09-27 04:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by sue66fun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something she can never have. A source of internal desire and subconscious frustration. But, good in the sack.
2006-09-27 05:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Shebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋