I've been with my girlfriend for forever and a day. In all retrospects she is my perfect woman. Independent, Smart, Sassy, Tells you whats on her mind, she also has the most beautiful body (36-25-35: a size 6-8) but doesn't know it or flaunt it, athletic, and a professional, plus she does everything a man wants a woman to do in bed. Her girlfriend is the polar opposite and I don't know why i'm in love with her. She is a BBW (size 14-16) with beautifully shaped hips and a very voluptuous breasts, blonde hair and blue eyes that pierce the soul, she is an open book, very sarcastic, and a little promiscuous, she has the most amazing smile (I mean in any picture she takes she is the one whose eyes and smile capture you). now the opposite: she is not athletic, a slob (I mean if you look in her room and office..WOW the mess that accumulates is really something), she is weak in many respects (physically and emotionally). I don't know why but I like the fact that I can take care of her.
2006-09-27 04:30:38 · 19 answers · asked by Mr. Cellophane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I guess maybe you feel like your girlfriend doesn't need you because she is so put together. That doesn't mean she doesn't love you and part of the reason she is so secure and confident is because she has a man she feels she can trust who obviously respects her. so, that gives her the freedom to be sucessful. She has you behind her. Maybe she isn't great at telling you how much she needs you but I would say she does more than you realize. It's nice to be needed but no one wants to be a babysitter and a fixer upper is fun at first but it gets old after a while. Do you think if you decided to date a messy, sarcastic, insecure, promiscuous girl you would be happy for long? I think not. Go home to your girlfriend and tell her you are feeling a little insecure because sometimes you feel like she doesn't need you for anything. I bet you will be surprised at her reaction. Good luck.
2006-09-27 04:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by therealprinsess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you want to take care of someone and not have a girlfriend who's so "independent". Or maybe you just have fallen in love with a women who isn't your "typical" type. That's no big deal. I think everyone has a "general" type they prefer or are more attracted to, but sometimes someone comes along and you're so captivated by their personality or certain features (smile, eyes...the windows to the soul!) that it doesn't matter what they look like! The opposite is true, too. You can find someone so attractive and beautiful, but get to know them and how they are, they're personality and if they're ugly on the inside, they become un-attractive to you. (That's happened to me...anyone else?) One thing's for sure. If you have feelings for your girlfriends best friend, you NEED to break-up with her and stay away from her friend until you sort your feelings out! Good luck!
2006-09-27 11:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by gidget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r just looking for satisfaction of ur needs.U r thinking only about yourself and don't care about ur girlfriend's feelings or how will she react when she comes to know that ur feelings for her r not the same ever since u met her best friend.The kind of description that u have given--it's obviously clear that u Analise people particularly"girls" as some sort of a specimen under a magnifying glass.U think that u can easily exploit Ur relationship and cheat on both the innocent girls.U can't take advantage of anyone's feelings cos obviously u r not in love.U can't just treat anyone as some sort of a cheap medium of gratification.The description is vulgar and it seems that u r expecting too much from Ur girlfriend and misutilizing Ur position only to meet ur selfish needs.
It's better that u reconsider your opinion about girls and learn to be sensitive and empathizing.Ur relation won't work if u continue to dwell on ur negative and abnormal notions or think that u r smart enough to get away with everything.
2006-09-27 12:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that I have come to find is that men like to feel needed and with your girlfriend you do. understand something that I think most just put to past is that perfect is not worth the energy you want to put into it meaning that perfect is boring no challenge, no expectation of nothing new. Generally speaking we all want what we can't have and most of the time we don't know what we want. So my advice to you is to sleep on it just down play the feeling and see if the best friend is really what you desire. Maybe you should have an innocent lunch with her or something of the nature but nothing that can harm your relationship something that is very Small and innocent and no one can detect what you are doing. it is the only way.
2006-09-27 11:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by dana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The human brain works in sometimes the most ridiculous ways. A longtime friend of mine had a girlfriend that went as far as letting him pick a partner for a 3-way years and years ago. It started getting to the point that he thought she loved him soo much that she'd do anything for him, but it just took one day for the woman to wake up and find love is blind and she was doing all these things to try to please him when all she should be doing was be herself. With that being said, I think you're just trying to see if you can have the 'other girl' you might lose both girls if you go down that path. She may be indirectly flirting with you, or you may be getting set up by your girlfriend. You're walking on thin ice and before you drown sit down and think about what you are about to lose.
2006-09-27 11:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem that you are having is that you have a woman that is too independent and you want to feel like the man. So you see her best friend weak in need of someone that can give her some order . Think about it, you have something good with the woman you're with. Her friend is just how you are use to your women being....weak....humble.
2006-09-27 11:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU KNOW WHAT!
just did that to get your attention.
Whatever happens you cant sleep with your girlfriends bestfriend.
Youll lose them both and they will lose each other and nooone will end up happy.
take a break from your girlfriend if you dont want to be with her but dont end up fighting it out on a reality chat show.......
it can never happen
2006-09-27 11:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about the fact if you end up with her she is some dirty girl just dont do this to youre girlfrend and how exactly you know the size of her friend u are a bad boy!!! haha
good luck
2006-09-27 11:34:26 · answer #8 · answered by *********** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of the real superman are long gone.
You want an excuse to play.
loooooooooooser
2006-09-27 11:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by MISSY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop likening her please do. because if that was your girlfriend likening your male best-friend you would call her all types of bad names. plus you don't no what your girlfriend got store for you latter on down your relationship. leave her friend alone. and i hope you not having sex with her best-friend if so send me an email.
2006-09-27 11:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋