how can i get my boyfriend to love me more,i mean he loves me but i feel that he has someone else and am afraid to lose him i need help
2006-09-27 04:28:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ASK HIM IF THERE IS ANYONE ELSE
2006-09-27 04:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by jennifer m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a therapist. Seriously! And I don't want that to come across as mean. You're inseucre and unless you learn to have some self-confidence, your boyfriend will NEVER be able to do enough or say enough to make you feel he loves you and isn't gonna leave you! I know! My BF is just like you, and I've just about given up trying to convince him I love him and there's noone else...we've been together for a year!!
2006-09-27 11:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by gidget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him directly if there is anyone else. The way you do it is crucial, though. You have to tell him you're ok with it (even if you're not), and you just want to know. Most of the time, they will tell you if you ask them like this. If he is seeing someone else, I would move on. Cheaters don't stop. Ever. It's very unfortunate, but someone will come along who will truly love and respect you, and that will make your love for that person much greater.
2006-09-27 11:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that there is someone else than there is. A females intuition is always right. He may not be screwing someone but he has another female he is confiding in. Check it out.
2006-09-27 11:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by HappyMama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't feel loved and feel that he's giving it to someone else go find someone that will show you some luv!
2006-09-27 11:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by ///\oo/\\\ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop fearing, and start trusting. And leave him alone - guys tend to get affectionate and emotional if you just back off and let them be.
2006-09-27 11:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CANT MAKE SOMEONE LOVE YOU. IF IT WAS MADE TO BE THEN IT WILL BE. REMEMBER IF YOU LOVE SOMETHING LET IT GO , IF IT COMES BACK IT IS YOURS IF IT DOSENT IT NEVER WAS.....
2006-09-27 11:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by ceemagiclydia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check up on him without letting him notice and be discreet when doing that.
2006-09-27 11:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by themysterious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, u need help.
2006-09-27 11:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a grip with this behaviour you will loose him
2006-09-27 11:35:14 · answer #10 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋