i really love my boyfriend but we argue alot,i cant stand him doing this am fed up but sunday will be 5 years we are together an d i want things to go on i cant live without him.help me please
2006-09-27 04:26:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No sweety you cant live without AIR.
Just take a deep breath and learn to let the little things go. If you guys made it to 5 years thats pretty good most dont even make it to that be proud and happy about your relationship.
Dont sweat the small stuff and seriously ...seriously pick your battles. Picking on every little thing is enough to kill even the best of relationships.
2006-09-27 04:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by Coyote 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are 5 years old, you can go on without him. What happens in another year or two when the arguing turns physical? Chalk the past 5 years up to a learning experience and cut him loose.
2006-09-27 11:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can totally feel you on this. A woman is not insecure for no reason. He must be doing or saying something that makes you feel that way. So let him know what he does that makes you insecure.
I used to feel that way but now I just tell myself how beautiful I am and look at all of the things I have in my life to be happy for. You need to feel good about yourself before you can expect someone else to do it for you. It will never change if you feel this way after being with him for 5 years. Just think would you want to live like this forever?????? If not .............. Let him go. He will be back when you are feeling good about yourself and doing things with your life. Trust me
2006-09-27 11:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by HappyMama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can live without him. You are arguing alot. What is it over? If it is important enough for you to argue over it it must be important to you. Are you willing for the rest of your life to feel like crap when you disagree with him. Five years is a long time. But the arguing will only get worse and not better. Move on.
2006-09-27 11:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by iknow316brunc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you arguing about? If it's petty, stupid things maybe you should sit down and have a talk with him. If you both love each other than you will make an honest effort to stop. Also consider some kind of counseling if things are that bad.
2006-09-27 11:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by paige 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, be happy with who you are as a single person & forget about him. It doesn't get any better, only worse. You CAN live without him, and most likely, live better without him. Be yourself, be happy with who you are and move forward without the stress of continually arguing.
2006-09-27 11:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say you cant go with out him as long as you have food you can go with out anybody respect you're self and get ure shi* straight its the only way to show him ure self dont let no guy put you down and five years dont mean nothing you guys have been fighting all this time..
2006-09-27 11:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by *********** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start loving your self.Go to your mirror an tell your self you are special.do this daily.it will help boost your self esteam.
most of all keep God in your life.He want stir you in the wrong directions.
2006-09-27 11:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by MISSY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a guy its either he just does not realize that this bothers you so much, or he just doesnt care which is up to you to find out the best way to deal withit talk to him and see if he stops.
2006-09-27 11:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by flamingblueyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, five years together and you can't understand each other as yet. Not sure that relationship is worth it.
2006-09-27 11:30:48 · answer #10 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋