well bascially me and my boyfriend are sixteen && we have these urges to get it on, but i am not ready for it, help!!!
2006-09-27 04:25:28 · 29 answers · asked by TRANEE' 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Shouldn't you be in school right now?
2006-09-27 04:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm proud of you for waiting. When your sixteen years old there is alot of pressure to have sex especially from your boyfriend or other peers. Waiting is the best thing to do if not you may regreat it! When your older you'll know exactly where I'm coming from. At the time it sounds like the best thing to do but now that im older, engaged, have a son and a baby on the way i wish i would have spent more of my teen years just being a teen a hanging with my girls. You'll have the rest of your life to have sex but don't you want it to be with the man you truly love. Take care of yourself because no one else will.
2006-09-27 11:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold out! Neither of you are emotionally ready to handle sex just yet. Tell him that when you are ready, it will be extra special at that time because you waited until it was right.
2006-09-27 11:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the parents into the room everytime you get the urge
2006-09-27 11:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by Holla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prepare to be dumped or to find he is getting it elsewhere. If you do not start putting out real soon, and keeping it interesting by going furhter, someone else will. Start experimenting and just do it. Also watch the weight no one wants a fat virgin.
2006-09-27 11:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to be alone alot, and avoid staying in bedrooms even if you are only watching a movie. when you get the urges, go out and do something to take your mind off of it.
2006-09-27 12:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by Katy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex. actually having sex can potentially ruin a good relationship.
just hang tight and build a relationship beyond sex. if the person really likes u for you, the relationship will keep going.
good luck.
2006-09-27 11:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by pinkie443 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play Checkers and watch Gumby on TV
2006-09-27 11:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key to a man's heart has always been through his stomach. If you want to keep him and don't want to give him sex, then feed him good food. That will surely keep him happy.
2006-09-27 11:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk - plan your futures together in detail. That will tell you a lot about whether you are driving down the same road as each other.
2006-09-27 11:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by teef_au 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a real relationship does not need sex to survive. We all have urges, satisfy your self or do other things besides intercourse.
2006-09-27 11:27:37 · answer #11 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋