I really cant see where she gets the time to do and say these rotten things, when she should be busy rasing her child...
2006-09-27 04:24:47 · 12 answers · asked by Sweet Ras 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey, I am in the same boat with you. I have been called every name in the book, I've been trashed all over town, I was a dope head, I was neglecting her child, not feeding her child, abusing her child......you name it, I got accused of doing it........The solution.........My husband walked away from his child because it got to the point where everytime we picked her up, there were cops being called over nothing, and the consist harrassment had to stop. He walked away from the visitation, we still pay child support, but he said when the child grows up he can sit here down and explain what happened........Trust me, revenge is sweet.......BUT, the more you stir in S#$@, the worse it stinks, so don't try to get back at her, just ignore ignorance or walk away like we did.........good luck, I know you need it.
2006-09-27 04:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by dixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As in most divorce situations I would be willing to bet you were somehow just as responsible. Just because you have gotten over things doesn't mean she doesn't still have some resentment toward you so she just keeps wanting to hurt you or get even. Time heals all wounds and while you may never be friends eventually she will at least just treat you coldly or ignore you and not plot or be cruel. Good Luck. Exes are a pain in the rear but if you have a child together you wil be dealing with her for a while. Try to be civil and keep contact to a minimum where you can.
2006-09-27 11:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by therealprinsess 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't have too much to say to her, nothing if possible, let her say what she wants, don"t worry about her any more, That is what she is trying to do , is get you all mad, so you can act up. Just do what ever you have to do. More woman ruin their own children, because of how they act! Don't worry about beating her at her own game, you be the bigger person, somethings are just not worth it!
2006-09-27 11:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Live good, love often and smile! Be as nice as you can to her... even if you have to vomit later. Show her child and her ex husband all the love you can. (keep in mind as evil as she is to you she has been to them too.)
It will drive her mad. She will need to be commited.
2006-09-27 11:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easiest way to win this game, is not to play. IGNORE HER. Compare it to a 5 year old who naggingly pesters another kid. The only way to stop it is pretend it doesn't bother you, and when they no longer feel like their getting the better of you, they quit.
2006-09-27 11:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by arcadia_1977 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
best thing.hire a good lawyer stay on your your toes,be a good man and just keep walking.its amazing at what these creatures and i emphasize,creatures can conjure up all for the sake of just causing someone pain.good luck friend
2006-09-27 11:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by stonedhilbily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off i need more details as to why you think she has evil plots
2006-09-27 11:37:57 · answer #7 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is unresolved anger and this is part of a grieving process..howevewr if it becomes stalking or harassment.. ring the cops ask them to ring her..
2006-09-27 11:30:40 · answer #8 · answered by cleo_alter_ego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her the more you respond to her behaviour the more she will act this way,she sounds as if shes hurt for what ever reason and shes doing her damnedest to make you pay.Tell her its harassment and unless it stops now you will seek legal advice.
2006-09-27 11:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold you head up.Once she sees you are happy
an she can't get next to you.the gossiping will stop.
2006-09-27 11:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by MISSY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋