I love him, but I just don't know what to do with him. He argues with me every morning when he wakes up. And to be honest he hurts me emotionaly and it makes me cry. Because I don't do anything to set him off like that. Then other times he can be a lovely carring man, nice and romantic. He takes me out to lunch and diner. When we argue he is always telling me that if I leave him is because I have someone else. What should I do? I need opinions, PLEASE.
2006-09-27 04:09:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Run for your life...this guy has issues, you dont need this type of drama
2006-09-27 04:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, and no! This guy sounds like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. These kind of dual personalities are the kind you want to avoid in a relationship. Sorry, but your boyfriend has some growing up to do. You don't just wake up and take out your morning crabbiness out on your innocent girlfriend! That is blatant verbal abuse! Here's a guy that makes you cry and hurts you emotionally; yet, you are QUESTIONING whether to tolerate this type of behavior?! If you stick with him because you like his other personality (the charming, romantic guy), prepare for more heartache and pain. The next time he tells you that the only reason why you would leave him is because you sneaked out and found someone else, you tell him, " No, it would be a good guess, but I would leave you for the way you treat me. Then you take me out to lunch or dinner to make up for what you did. Your days are numbered if you don't want to change your ways." One day girlfriend, you will be with someone else who would never treat you like that; and you will think to yourself, " What was I thinking when I gave my love to that selfish guy? My current lover would never let me suffer like that!" My answer is the same as yours. Leave him.
2006-09-27 04:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by Suz E. Home BAKER 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels extremely tired and stressful in the morning when he wakes up, you'd better not talk with him, prepare one glasse of milk and some fruit, something he likes to eat for him, some men can easily get mad when they feel tired, i don't think that he doesn't love you or he got some problems, just because he is too tired in the morning, didn't get enough sleep...try to understand him then you'll be alright!
2006-09-27 04:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
nicely, you'll imagine after having brushed their teeth each day, two times an afternoon for 8 (or 11) years that they could make sure out that they ought to comb their teeth. in spite of the indisputable fact that, I even ought to remind my toddlers each day also so it must be ordinary! we've tried images on the lavatory mirror, chore charts and extra yet no longer something seems paintings except my telling them to get in there and brush ALL their teeth.
2016-11-24 22:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by zollars 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your boyfriend a morning person?there are some people who are just super cranky in the morning that even the smallest thing will make them mad
can you remember when this started ?
could there be something that he isnt happy about?possibly jealous of someone like hunky neighbour or colleague of yours?
maybe you could have a heart to heart talk with him,tell him your feelings , find out what's wrong,then reassure him that you love only him
2006-09-27 04:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by liz c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hook your man up with some smokin lovin and strong coffee to start your day together. If that don't work look for a real man.
2006-09-27 04:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by adamwitzhoops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your Girlfriends for breakfast. Tell him, you'll return when he turns into a Human Being.
2006-09-27 04:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he isn't a morning person just ignore him and the morning don't even talk to him till he comes around thats what i have to do with my man he is the same way
2006-09-27 04:12:54 · answer #8 · answered by beachluver1432 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maria, baby that is emotional abuse you may can't see it because your in the relationship. he's telling you that to keep you trappped and he feels he owns you. wwhat u should do is get out of that relationship why you can bfore it gets worse. write me back.
2006-09-27 04:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by carrie c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him. Once he is a jerk he isn't going to fix himself up.
2006-09-27 04:13:45 · answer #10 · answered by Rare Hero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋