2006-09-27 03:50:26 · 17 answers · asked by weirded out 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-09-27 03:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You got married young, what's harder is that you have kids. Do you even have time for yourself, let alone your wife? At 25 with 4 kids I'll bet that even if you could get a babysitter, you couldn't afford to go away anywhere. I'm in a similar boat. The best you can do is try to spend an hour or two at night with your wife doing something you both like, after the kids are asleep. Its easy to grow apart with so much responsibility around you, especially if you work as much as I do. Just remember why you are working, for your family and at the end of the day go home to them. Good luck.
2006-09-27 03:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go away on an exotic trip, if you can afford it, just the two of you. Leave the kids home with some relative or friend. You are barely 25, you are as young as can be. Do crazy, original, memorable things together. If you are low on cash, you can still do many things at home. Act your age, for crying out loud, you are practically a teenager, it doesn't matter how many kids you have! Dress up, arrange a super hot date, go crazy! There are no limits! Be unconventional, be orginal, and scary, if you have to. Stay out of rutine for a while. Just search within your heart and behind every weird, twisted dream or fantasy. You will get your best answer!
2006-09-27 03:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well what you can do is try to have a least one day out of the week where you can make it about you and your hubbie. Send the kids away come home early make dinner or order out. Then go shower and get all sexy and when he walks in the door from work meet him at the door with a juicy kiss and embrace. Then send him off to shower and get ready for dinner. After dinner the two of you can watch a move or make your own. Once you are done with the beginning course of your evening you can then move into the main course. Take him to the bedroom and have dessert for the remainder of the night.
2006-09-27 04:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First go on a romantic vacation with your hubby just the two of you for a weekend a week whatever. Start off by spicing up your sex life try new positions or things you never thought you would do during sex. Have date nights with your husband at least once a week.
2006-09-27 03:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does the fact that your not fat have anything to do with your marriage not having any spice? Have some time away from your kids with your husband you'll realize what you've been missing.
2006-09-27 03:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The biggest problem I usually see with marriages is that they've lost everything that made it special at first. Backtrack to when you first got married and try to remember what you did for him and what he did for you that made it "spicey." Then start to do those things again, one at a time. Even if he doesn't seem to notice or seems unresponsive at first, after a while, you may put that spark back in his heart.
2006-09-27 03:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, get your tubes tied. 4 kids is enough. There may be no spice in your marriage because he is afraid you will get pregnant again! Send the kids to a sitter. Have a romantic dinner, role play, use toys, give him a massage, take a bubble bath together. The possibilities are endless.
2006-09-27 03:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You began to have family responsabilities too young... Now you're missing the youth-young adult experiencies you gave up for rearing a family; try to make space for one or two days every week to live that, better with your partner; if couple relationship is the one that opresses you, give you both the chance to be alone... But don't mess it all with new romantic affairs!
2006-09-27 04:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by tlahtopil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've been married 6 years... what we do is reminisce about the first time we met... keeping that memory alive is a wonderful way to make it spicy.
2006-09-27 04:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 kids,you don't need spice, you need an IUD, with 4 children you do not have much time for spice,just sex, take his penis and but some Cinnamon on it ,or vanilla, or something in your spice RACK, hope this helps.............you did say spice
2006-09-27 03:57:11 · answer #11 · answered by bull 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋