2006-09-27 03:15:09 · 22 answers · asked by jb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I guess that depends on why he's unemployed. If it's economy and location; has he tried getting retraining? i've been there, done that and left. Most men get depressed when they've lost their job;their identity so to speak. If it''s not just laziness; talk to him about what his options might be and contact some agencies regarding retraining, unemployment office; Vocational rehab,job training offices. Is there children? what about you working and he take over the roles at home? If he really doesn't want to contribute;lose him, it's a no win situation.
2006-09-27 03:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by sweetandstraightup 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that you want security.. The man is suppose to be the head of the household when it comes to finances or if not the head at least do his share.. not anything. My husband was unemployed for awhile and didn't seem like he was interested in finding employment, so I stopped buying groceries, and would eat out before I came home. The only thing in the house was water.. You have to pay the bills so not buying groceries will save if its just you it will be cheaper to eat out.. If you have kids go to places where they charge for the meal by ages...still cheaper..He will get hungry and get a JOB. And to answer what does it mean.. It means that you are tired of your hubby being a SCRUB.
2006-09-27 03:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by Justice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. My husband didn't work for the first 2 years of our marriage. He could, he just chose not to. You know what I did? I got 3 jobs, and I was really pissed off at him,and we even separated for a short time. Tell him that he needs to be responsible and look for a job, cuz if he cares, you can't take care of the financial responsibilities yourself.
Well, my husband got a job when I became pregnant. He then realized that a job was important, and that I couldn't work 3 jobs anymore. Now, I am a stay at home mom, and he started his own business that really took off, and he's a much happier and nicer person now cuz he feels a sense of accomplishment.
Just tell him.
2006-09-27 03:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by jesse s 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means you a really frustrated with your husband. Talk with him and find out what 's going on with him. Let him know that you are also very frustrated and why. Help him in his job quest.
2006-09-27 03:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT means that you are having a bad day
it means that you have thing to say about him sitting on his *** around the house
you are frustrated
the remedy is go to your bedroom and scream until you feel better
by the way we all feel like that sometimes
2006-09-27 03:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be frustrated because he is not doing anything to go look for a job. And he might just be laying around the house doing nothing, not helping you around the house.
2006-09-27 03:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by Kookie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you might wont to do is tell him that if he does not get a job in the next 2 week we the family will be out on the streets .. and if he give you a answer that there is no job open near by than you might have to go and see if he has going into depression . i was out of work for 6 week and depression kick in and i need my wife to kick me in the pants to get me going again.
2006-09-27 03:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is unemployed thru no fault of his own...give the guy a break, he probly feels worse than you do...if he's being lazy and just doesnt wanna work...kick him to the curb
2006-09-27 03:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you want to run away from your problem. all to many people ask a question and leave out things that are needed in-order to give you or them an complete and honest answer.
I don't know if he is lazy, angry, or an underachiver or un- educated or he is just depressed or anything so this is the best answer I can give you.
2006-09-27 03:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It means it takes two to make a life and he is not sick or not trying or is lazy. If he is hoping to bum off of you. Of course you want to bail. Don't enable him. You treat people how to treat you. Get a job, get responsible, or get a hotel
2006-09-27 03:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋