2006-09-26 13:46:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We tend to hurt the ones we love because we are hurting. We feel safe around them. We know that we can act out and they will forgive us and try to make things better even if it's not their fault. (I'm not talking about abuse their is no excuse for that type of behavior.)
2006-09-26 13:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by mysticstargoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not intentional i know we just have a way of doing that cause we think that the grass is greener or that there is better than what or who we have. or even to see some one different. sometimes we just get tired of doing the same ol same ol thing. and we want a variety. and to sum it up we dont really know what we want so we in turn hurt those while we are so fickle in our ways. we waste our times and theirs. whereas we need to first find out who we are and what exactly it is that we want in our lives and stop playing around with others feelings.
2006-09-26 20:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause u think they would be better off with someone then you.
Cause your life is back with that person and the only way is to hurt them to make your life better.
Cause we would rather hurt them then be hurt ourselves
2006-09-26 21:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c thats what life is. We love, we cry and we die a little inside when we hurt the ones we love.
2006-09-26 20:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a fine line between love and hate, look at how people who say they love eachother, treat eachother.
we don't mean to hurt them, but when you care about someone your emotions usually run high, and you act and say things without thinking or rationalizing, then we regret it later. When your emotions run high, it's harder to control your reactions towards the person who's making you emotional. The people we truly care about bring out the absolute best and worst in us.
2006-09-26 20:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We hurt them because they are the ones closest to us. We feel comfortable enough with them that we let our guard down and show how we really feel.
2006-09-26 21:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know! But we do. Even when you try so hard not to hurt them, it just happens. Thank God for forgiveness!
2006-09-26 20:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by Adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are the people that also care for us.This makes it twice as bad when things go wrong. People often WANT others to be what they WANT them to be as opposed to who they are.All this can do is lead to bad feelings If we did not care for someone, it wouldn't bother us if they go away.
2006-09-26 20:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we take them for granted and once we do it we reget it because it was the biggest mistake of your life. but once you hurt them they may never forgive you. or they may it all depends if your love was strong enough.
2006-09-26 20:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cos 'the one that we love' always love us and we are just testing..either with intention or not..
2006-09-26 20:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by ★ yaya ★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋