i'm a big women it's hard to have and orgasm..i need help....?

Answer 1

First you need to relax. figure out the emotional stimulai for your sexual side. What turns you on? what part of your body feels best when touched? Sex and orgasm are emotional for most women-big is sexy too, so think positive about your body as well. try toys, lotions, friction, on top, on bottom, with hand, with mouth, while at the same time imagining your personal desires for extreme ecstasy. spend an entire evening by yourself discovering yourself. Good luck girl and i know you will find it.

Answer 2

If you mean it takes a long time to have an orgasm, that just means you need a lot of attention. Some women take longer than others. If you haven't had an orgasm thats a whole different ball game.
Start with the simple notion of what gives you pleasure. Whether it is stroking your hair, fondling your breasts or kissing - relax and soak in the feeling of pleasure. An orgasm is mostly a gift of time and attention. If you can satisfy yourself, then you can be satisfied by your partner - if he is willing to give you the time and attention.

Answer 3

it is harder for us full figured girls to have an orgasm. If weight loss is out of the question, then maybe a book on the subject, or an informative video. NOT a porno, but a video that will actually educate you. They are out there! Best of luck.

Answer 4

Perhaps you should practice alone first when you know what pleases you you can tell him how to please you I am not a small woman and belive me I have no problem having orgasams

Answer 5

OO honey it is not you because that does not change anything it is the man that is working it. He must not be hitting the G-SPOT!!

Answer 6

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