Ok I have this guy I really love and he loves me or so he says (ok we're kinda going out) but he says i can date other guys*sighs* my ex boyfriend wants me to go out with him but my friend likes him I'd rather be friends with benifits i kissed him on the cheek he thinks i want him back *sigh* what do i do am i screwed?
2006-09-24 13:51:04 · 13 answers · asked by torie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like the making of one big orgy.
2006-09-24 14:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you are in a HUGE hole. But here's the deal. If he says that you can date around that means that you "boyfriend" is only a benefits kinda dude. Dont waste your time on him, just if you need a hook up then there's you main man. If your ex boyfriend wants you take him back you had him way before your friend wanted him or wants him. So really take him back, and dont worry about your friend. You had him first she is not being a friend by liking your ex boyfriends.
2006-09-24 20:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two issues here:
Your boyfriend says you can date other guys.
Translation: he wants to date other girls. If you are not okay with this you had better speak up.
You and your ex.
Your ex is an ex for a reason. Don't go back out with him. If it didn't work before, it won't work now. And no friends with benefits either.
2006-09-24 20:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By Kissing Him Your Sort Of Telling Him You Want To Get With Him. If You Want It To Be Strictly Benefits Then Tell Him That's All You Want.
2006-09-24 20:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by cierra91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not really love you ; If he really does then he wouldn't let you go out with other guys.. you should of not kissed your x on the cheek . you have given him hopes of getting you back.. you are mixed up.... so don't be with either one. ..
2006-09-24 20:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you haven't completely detached yourself from your ex-boyfriend. Just try to understand your feelings well and take your time. Decide, and trust your decision - when it comes to matters of the heart.
2006-09-24 20:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by Jason A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur ex that he is great as a friend, and hes great as benefits, but he suxs at being a boyfriend. so u want this other guy to b ur boyfriend, but ur ex can still have u every now and then b/c u don't no wat ud do w/o ur ex's bod.
besides its always more fun w/ 2 guys
2006-09-24 20:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah ur screwed cuz now hes not gonna leave u alone, and if ur current bf loves u enough, he wouldnt want to share you with anyone else.... good luck sweetie
2006-09-24 20:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by *Chelsie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dont go out with him and tell ur bf that u dotn want to date other guys and then tell ur friend that she can have ur x and then set ur x straight
2006-09-24 20:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by ~*!Tish!*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not screwed, don't get back with your ex if you don't want, explain to him that you did it because you are a step up from friends but nothing more
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2006-09-24 20:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by absoluteao 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋