2006-09-23 09:45:01 · 14 answers · asked by Stephanie C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I live with a guy who's mother hates me.......he has talked with her and nothing, she refuses to accept that we are together, we have enough problems in our relationship that we really don't need her interfering, If I decide to leave my b/f it won't have anything to do with his mother because I won't let her make choices like that for me, me and my b/f will end this relationship if that's what should happen not his mother........family should respect your decision who you want to spend your life with not try to ruin it
2006-09-23 09:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by swty4u2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your life and you need to decide if this bf is the man for you. Is he worth alienating your family for?
You may consider that if your parents don't like him then there is probably a very good reason why they don't. Maybe they see something that you are over looking. It is very easy to over look things when you think you are "in love." Maybe you should sit down and talk with your parents and ask them why they don't like him. Be willing to really listen to their answer.
Being parents doesn't make us automatically right but we have been through this game of life much longer than the children and we have learned a few more things than the children have had a chance to learn. Listen to your parents they usually know because they already made the mistake.
2006-09-23 09:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would break it off with him. you can always get a new guy but family is family. your family is looking out for you, and if they think this guy is a loser then there has to be a reason that he gave them to think he's not good enough for you and you could do better. dump him. if he's not willing to rectify this problem that bothers you he won't be able to make you happy in other problems you have. what kind of relationship would that be?
2006-09-23 09:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Stephanie : according to your deciding effort go ahead
because bf is not wanted around by family it is better than
not continue with that hassel at all obey parents
2006-09-23 09:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing is to have a family fued over a boyfriend.
It's not worth it and boys come and go.
Your family is forever.
2006-09-23 09:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by TurntableKitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...if you think it will get better then don't leave him but if u keep telling them both to work it out and they don't...then...leave him..because your family will always be there for you...and you and him might break up later on..
2006-09-23 09:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on how you feel. I am certain this places undue stress on the relationship. Are they willing to at least meet half-way?
2006-09-23 09:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends? Do you love your BF? Can you be happy living separate lives? Is it your BF or overbearing parents/family?
2006-09-23 10:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother hated my boyfriend for more than 3 years always tring to tell me I deserve better(shes a man hater) and after we got married she had to put up with him he was her son-in-law. he..he
2006-09-23 09:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by chickannie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family problems should not interfere with your relationships but if you are pretty young and not all that attached to your b/f think about whether it's worth the aggravation.
2006-09-23 09:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋