omg omg omg my bestes friend on earth just madeout wit my boyfriend!!!!!In front of me i dont know want to tell her i mean shes my best friend wat should i do??and i want to break up wit him soooooooo bad!But he asked me to marrie him and i said yes and the next day i watch them makin out,he was the guy of my dreams........and now i feel like a ***** for sayin yes to that.HELP MEEEEEEE!!!
2006-09-23 07:03:39 · 33 answers · asked by Minty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, sounds like you've lost a boyfriend and a best friend. Sorry to hear that. I wouldn't try to repair either relationship. Your better off without them. Just move on.
2006-09-23 07:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Billy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, he does not think that much about you if he would make out with your best friend. Obviously, she doesnt either, or she would have never let it come to that. You need to tell him to stick that ring where the sun does not shine. Then, you need to tell her what kind of a friend she really is. Friends do not do that to other friends. Even for a joke, especially knowing how much you care(d) about him. Let it off your chest. Just do it, stand up to both of them.
2006-09-23 07:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by pits_me1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To begin with that friend was no friend at all. Remember that it takes 2 to do this so you cant put all the blame on her. Your b/f is a total jerk who didnt care one bit about your feelings and you are better off finding this out now instead of after you married him. Kick them both to the curb you dont deserve that treatment.
2006-09-23 07:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me get this right...your WATCHED your "best" friend and fiance play tonsil hockey and you're wondering what to do? Dump them both. What if you forgive him and he does the same thing with the same friend, only this time you're married with a kid. Lose the jerk now and same yourself a lot of pain in the future. Good Luck
2006-09-23 07:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sammie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U deserve better,dump em both,jus coz u agreed 2 marry him dont mean u gave him permission2treat u like dat!&the so called best friend,stay away frm her.4get abt em it wont b eazy buh u'll get there eventually,Ol the best
2006-09-23 07:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell them both they are out of your life, and move on! They are not trustworthy as a friend, nor a husband.
If you stay, you are looking for years of this drama in your life. You don't deserve this, you deserve better!!!! Kick them both to the curb and tell them YOU are more than this!!
People will respect you more for standing up for yourself against this drama, rather than putting up with it. And if they don't respect you, then they aren't worthy of your love or friendship!
2006-09-23 07:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by Tesra 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So Sorry hun , But you need to confront them both and get away from them altogether and start new life without your so called best friend and you find another man who is worth marring
2006-09-23 07:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by Sheena 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is absolutely now way that either one of them love you. cut them both lose. You can find another best friend and boyfriend that love and respect you. At least you found out now. You are better than that, and you can do better.
2006-09-23 07:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by croc hunter fan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well girl,I've been there to and I know the answer isn't easy, I pretty well busted my man in the face ,and beat her face!,[Of course ,I went to jail, but I didn't stay! So pretty much , take care of-business, don't sweat going to jail, it's only 4th degree-assault & thats only 3days, hell I only done 4 hours though,but I'm in Ky. It might be different states though so that's something you might want to look into first, But handle your business.
2006-09-23 07:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First - BREATHE!!!
Second - these two people obviously aren't as close to you as you think - especially your best friend! You need to confront her and ask her what the hell is up with her!! Forget the dude, if he really loved you, he would never do this to you!!
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
2006-09-23 07:09:26 · answer #10 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋