One man is successful in his job makes good money, makes me laugh. He's not real big or masculine but has a very nice personality. I care very much for him, but not sure how physically attracted to him I am. The other is masculine (big guy) and I am physically attractive to him, but he's controllling, has some baggage from his divorce. He's accused me of things that are so bizzare it's funny. He's also got some debt, around 12,000 worth. His mother tries to run his life and he's constantly on his cell phone. So why am I attracted to this type.
2006-09-21 15:29:59 · 8 answers · asked by jeep 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
id go - paper, scissors, rock lol
2006-09-21 15:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How well do u know the first guy?? He seems to be a great guy. It probably will take a little time to really tell if u're a attracted to him physically. But if the physcial attraction isn't there completely....u gotta find out if u'd rather date someone else.....would u miss being with that guy?
The one with the baggage...stay friends...he might be hot or good looking....but controlling and being control'd by the mother..with major debt....i don't know they guy but I wouldn't want him accusing me about something or later one wanting to borrow money....I don't think so....but thats just me....
I gotta just go with ur heart...but chose wisely
2006-09-21 22:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between love and infatuation. The big guy is probably and infatuation do to his physical appeal. I don't know about the first guy, but you as long as the second guy is in the picture you will not fully devote your attention to guy No. 1 to see if he is truly right for you.
2006-09-21 22:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you answered your own question....niether. you have reasons why you like them, but neither are healthy. nice guys need someone who finds their lack of masculinity loveable. you are not in that boat. and any man with bizzar behavior... like controlling is not even in the rehelms of conceving a relationship thats at all healthy. drop them both as choices, becouse you are keeping yourself from finding the total package for you. no matter how they feel about you... you should never settle, or be involved with a monster. divorce is tricky, but theirs always a reason. and in his case its obvious, and you need to walk away before you get hurt.
2006-09-21 22:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by native girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're thinking long term, you have to go with the one who is more fulfilling of your intellectual and emotional needs. Beauty fades away, but stupidity doesn't. Keep that in mind.
2006-09-21 22:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by backupplanc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction can be dangerous. There is no choice. Truth is, until you know exactly what you want, and believe you deserve it, the perfect-for-you fellow will not appear.
2006-09-21 22:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation as you, and I wonder why I'm like that too. Solution-why should you choose? I'm seeing two men, and I'm having fun! I like my cake and eat it too!
2006-09-21 22:35:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is you problem doll...???
go for the first.....geeeeeeee.....u wemen are all the same....you fall on ur knees when u c a big prick....and starts blowing..
2006-09-21 22:34:07 · answer #8 · answered by lynx_sl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋