I have beent seeing this guy for about five months. He has a ten month old son and he is in the niddle of a divorce. I understand that he has to see his ex-wife because of their kid, but the other day, he called me and asked me to come over after work...I did...and he wasn't there...so i went home. for the next three days he didnt call me. I finally went and asked his momma what was going on. She told me that he had left with his ex-wife, and she hasnt seen him. she said she sae him the day before with her, and he showed his ex pictures of me telling her how beautiful i was and how much he loved me...when he finally called me he told em he had nessed up and he was sorry, and I forgave him...he said he left with her because she asked him to help her with logan, their son...well, like i said i believed him and took him back...am i stupid...
2006-09-21 06:10:05 · 11 answers · asked by L. Roberson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In a word, YES.
2006-09-21 06:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by miataman042 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While there are times that marriages break up abruptly and the two spouses have little or no contact thereafter, in my observation it seems far more common that break ups are on-again off-again affairs that either lead to a permanent dissolution of the bonds or a renewal of the relationship, even a strengthening of it.
If you are patient, understanding, and persistent you may very well end up with this man if that is your desire. Still, do not expect it to be without some emotional cost. After all, he loved this woman once, and had a child with her. Unraveling that sort of bond is often not clean and easy and you will be necessarily involved in whatever emotional turmoil that surrounds it if you are with him.
2006-09-21 06:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by anonymourati 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh..No not really you really no not have any evidence that he did anything wrong.I would say you did the right thing...but be on the alert ..i don't think its best to put all ur effort into this relationship now.Wait and see if he runs off again and if he does then i suggest you call it quits or even if he messes up again.Tell him you did not appreciate what he did but u are going give him teh benefit of the doubt THIS time.Good luck
2006-09-21 06:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by mshollywood20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why couldn't he call and let you know what was up? He made you look real stupid standing you up with no response for three days. His mom knew where he was why couldn't you. Keep a watchful eye on those two.
2006-09-21 06:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by victorious_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is confused. To free yourself from confusion, let him know your concern and suggest a time-out for 3 to 6 months.
He need time and space to work out what he really wants to do.
No you are not stupid. You are just soft-hearted
2006-09-21 06:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remeber that even if we will get the divorce she will always be in his life, becuase of the baby.Maybe one day when she is not gonna have a men in her life she will try to get him back and he will go for it for the best for the kid...wants him to have both parents...its hard....but i believe letting him go would be hard too...its all up to u
2006-09-21 06:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u are is in love and well people are they become stupid over the person and do not always use there head. i hope that things work out for u
2006-09-21 06:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r in the wrong side of the rode forget him he already has one try to find one that u could have sex with and have your own babies.
2006-09-21 06:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by Blah_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use spell check stupid
2006-09-21 06:14:08 · answer #9 · answered by havin_funtimes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just going to keep doing this to you.
2006-09-21 06:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋