how would you know if your boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on you?

Answer 1

XXXXXXXXXXSome of these signs of cheating are "tongue in cheek" while others are tell-tale signs that commonly appear with a cheating husband or cheating wife, girlfriend or boyfriend.

1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a
vasectomy.

2) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know
about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife
or girlfriend you are.)

3) Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.

4) Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.

5) He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and
returns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.

6) She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.

7) She buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know.

8) He sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.

9) The cheating husband carries condoms, and you are on the pill.

10) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.

11) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.

12) He becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.

13) Raises hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible
to love more than one person at a time?"

14) He buys himself new underwear.

15) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.

16) The cheating wife stops wearing her wedding ring.

17) Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.

18) Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.

19) Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.

20) He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.

21) He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.

22) Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the
pay stub.

23) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

24) You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal
time off from work - but supposedly worked on those days.

25) Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.

26) Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.

27) Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.

28) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially
after you have gone to bed.

29) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's house and
had to eat the dinner you prepared when he got home.

30) Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more
than previously.

31) His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You
see lipstick on your husband's shirt.

32) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account
drops off.

33) You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.

34) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy"
and easily moved to anger.

35) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your
voice.

36) He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.

37) Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.

38) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the
home.

39) She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.

40) She has a "glow" about her.

41) Atypical erratic behavior.

42) He sneaks out of the house.

43) She sleeps with her purse by the bed

44) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.

45) He tells you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.

46) The telltale signs of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question
in the first place.

Answer 2

Well, since this has happened to me in the past I'll tell you from my experience. The person who is doing the cheating will start to act differently around you, and with you. You might notice that they start to want to do things that you've never done with them. When you talk on the phone or he/she calls if they're not holding normal conversation and all you get is a mm hmm, yeah, ok. That could possibly mean the person is there with them right then. They stop spending as much time with you, as they used to. Sometimes more than often they are MIA and have either no excuse as to where they were or a stupid one. Then the most obvious signs would be you catch them in the act, or they mistakenly call you by the other person's name, or you find evidence like pictures of the two of them together or a phone number.
Believe me, when its happening to you you'll automatically know especially if this is someone you've been with for a good amount of time.

Answer 3

Cheating is cheating. If you say that you are in an exclusive relationship, you should mean it. If monogamy's not you're thing, that's cool. If you're bi-sexual that's fine by me. Or even a closet gay that's wanting a coverup.. But BE HONEST ABOUT IT. Don't tell me that you only want me then go behind my back and sleep with someone else, male, female, human or beast.

Answer 4

they wont act the same around u and if u have slept with ur bf or gf, u will have sex less often, ingnore ur calls when u call, would rather go with his friends then spend time with u, comes home late, when they want to know where ur at all the time when they are cheating on they will always try to stay 2 steps ahead of so u wont catch them!!! there is alot of hints if u know that he is acting different around u. just ask him, tell him to honest with u most of the time they wont tell u. but good luck with ur relationship and i hope that ur not being cheated on

Answer 5

Intuition. Make sure you separate it from suspicion.
If you have been unfaithful in the past yourself it is very difficult to trust your lover - because you tend to feel that if you could cheat - then so can they. You 'tar them with the same brush!' Infidelity is a continuing poison and if you can't trust your lover.......then there is no love.

Answer 6

Gut feeling....ask them....follow them....check up on them...check the computer history. Are you the cheated or the cheater?? If you suspect then your'e probably right or just being paranoid because you too are not behaving...this being the case time to say 'goodbye'..what is the point in carrying on?

Answer 7

he or she doesn't spend as much time with you as much as they use too. they sort of stay distant from you. you start hearing stuff from other people that they are cheating. check their text messages

Answer 8

If your female intuition feels it then go with it..but before you start accusing, START SNOOPING...You need strong evidence against him... You know unless it's really obvious...

Answer 9

if he's all acting strange and when you tease him/her to someone and he/she gets irritated even if its obviously just a joke..also,when he thinks your cheating on him/her,some people project what they do to others...

Answer 10

I agree, but don't call its "snooping". It's called "doing research"! Good luck!