I was recently legaly seperated but now we got back together and its working out good , during that time I was seperated I had sex with a old freind just once and I have been worried she could be pregnant. She had her tubes tied 17 years ago and she thinks i am nuts, She has had 2 normal periods and even took a home pregnancy test just to shut me up which turned out negative but I am a worry wart.
What do you guys think am I just be stupid and need to stop worrying about her being pregnant?
Also please don't flame me I am just a nervious person who always fears the worst with everything
2006-09-15 15:36:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If she had her tubes tied 17 years ago and hasn't gotten pregnant yet. Chances are almost 100% that she is not. Also if the test was negative, you have nothing to worry about. I had my tubes ties at age 23 and I am now 52, and never once got pregnant again. Quit worrying, you are in the clear.
2006-09-15 15:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by Laura41 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not a guy but if she has had 2 normal periods and even did a pregnancy test to prove to you she wasn't pregnant you should put it out of your mind and start taking care of your present marriage but if you are determined to worry maybe you should get a test to make sure you didn't contact any disease that you can pass on to your wife.,you need to get over fearing the worst all the time, it can sometimes make the worst come true. Besides she had her tubes tied ,you can't forgive yourself for the situation you got into,get over it,& move on, be happy for a change,enjoy the restoration with your wife,most never get the chance.
2006-09-15 23:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by dchilders_ministerofmusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask us not to flame you but in your question, you ask us if you're being stupid... You flamed yourself. I think you should stop worrying. I get the feeling you're not really worried about her being pregnant but afraid your wife will find out you had sex with someone while you were separated... Am I wrong? Perhaps you should stop keeping in contact with the person you think you got preggers... Or is it just a way to keep in touch with her in case your getting back with your wife doesn't work out???????????????
2006-09-15 22:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not stupid just a worry wart, I don't think it's possible that she could be pregnant, after having her tubes tied for all that time, just chill
2006-09-15 22:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Fear is Fear. If the test said negative, then breathe. Negative means not pregnant. Also, I hope that you have been honest with your spouse about the whole sex thing. How can you start over if you are keeping things from one another. Open up and let the chips fall where they may. Good Luck
2006-09-15 22:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by queen 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dude, theres a snowball's chance in hell that shes pregnant. You dont need to worry, just dont have sex with women you dont want to get pregnant unless your using protection
2006-09-15 22:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by Who, Me?? ...I'm Lost... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may. Have her go to the doctor. And really be sure. Cause hm-test are to me really not a 100% sure. And no you r not being crazy. I've been their. Just talk to her and have her go. It will good for the both of you. Her haveing her peroid just doesn't sound right to me.
2006-09-15 22:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by pomsquad2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's not pregnant then....protection should still be used even when the tubes are tied people can carry STD's and not know they have them "worry about that"
2006-09-15 22:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are being paranoid! If her tubes are tied and she's had 2 periods, I would bet my paycheck that you are in the clear.
2006-09-15 22:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
ask to see the papers for the operation and/or the scar. Mine is right under my belly button. If she can't produce the proof that's the time to be worried.
2006-09-15 22:40:08 · answer #10 · answered by Red 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋