2006-09-15 06:31:48 · 24 answers · asked by jingles18@verizon.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First,give your avatar a sex change operation.
2006-09-15 06:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you should be able to answer this yourself. You can admit that your not treating your wife good so the first step is always admiting your problem. Now what to do next. Since I don't know you I can't be very specific but I know that its the little things that make a big difference so remember that. Also when she talks LISTEN thats a very big thing because think back to a time when you had something very important you wanted to tell somebody and then they completely ignored you or didn't really care, it hurts alot, so you must listen. So if you are already doing the little things and you are listening the next step is to ask your wife what you can do to be a better husband. If she goes into I wish you would spend more money on me or anything that sounds like complaining you might want to pass the buck onto her and let her know that she is the one creating problems. You can be 1 of 2 types of people if your trying to be a better husband, either your just an guy and you don't listen or your letting her wear the pants and she is telling you that you need to make her happy. The ideal situation would be to make sure that both of you are happy, well duh. The key to any relationship is communication and without that you are dead in the water.
2006-09-15 06:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a good husband is like being a best friend. Be there for her, talk, listen, support, offer advise, go out and have fun together, make her laugh, call her at work just because you can, talk gossip, do something goofy, never forget her birthday, tell her you love her new shoes!, and let her do the same for you because being good to you is just as important.
2006-09-15 06:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by bsmart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To treat your SO better you need to really listen first of all. Try to do more often activities you both enjoy and try new things together. Involve your SO in your life by asking opinions on your concerns.
The best way to treat someone better could be simply to ask them this question and act accordingly!!!
2006-09-15 06:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a funny avitar for a husband.
they are the same thing. be there for her physically and mentally. hug her before and after sex. let her know you appreciate her and all the crap she has to put up with from you and the kids. take the kids and let her have a girls day out once in a while. get a sitter and take her out to a nice place to eat, drink and dance. get her flowers for no reason. and better flowers when there is one.
listen to her when she wants to rant and rave even though you could care less. find out what her interests are and find one to join her in.
tell her she is sexy and let her know you love her just the way she is. Never talk about how she isn't as thin as she used to be (she knows it).
2006-09-15 06:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should be her best friend. her soft place to fall when she;s down and her biggest fan / Listen to the things she's excited about whether it's new drapes or whatever....when she's happy share her excitement even if you don't really get it. Talk to her as if she's a friend .Women need their men to communicate better.It took me 2 failed marriages to finally get it. This time I married my best friend and we have an awesome relationship! We talk about everything and accept our differences. Sometimes we just agree to disagree. Sometimes you have to agree just to make her happy. Marriage is a give- give thing not a give-take. Communication is the key to a good relationship. Share your feelings with her...it will make her feel important in your life. If you love your wife & it sounds like you do, open up to her. You're relationship will improve rapidly. Good Luck man
2006-09-15 06:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just treat her like you did when she was your girlfriend. Court her. Whatever you were doing at that time must have been the right recipe if she married you.
Additionally, try learning massage to use on her.
2006-09-15 06:35:13 · answer #7 · answered by Automation Wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support is the biggest. Listen to her. Not all women like gifts & money some just want your time cause they will remember that more than a dress ,etc.
2006-09-15 06:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u know that in the bible, it tells men to "love your wife, as you love yourself".
even if u are not christian, u can hear the common sense in it; if u can learn to love yourself, u can learn to love your partner in a "selfless" manner. whatever is good for you, automatically should be good for ur partner. keep urself accountable, make sure u are a good person, husband, provider, Earn her respect. that way , the wife will be able to do Her job, and support, respect, "honor", "obey" her husband. people say In the bible it says to obey ur husband. but they don't realize that the man has to respect and honor his wife by being Accountable, a Good husband, in order to deserve that respect. :) good luck~
2006-09-15 06:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You appear rather to fem to have a wife.
2006-09-15 06:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find her G spot,clean the house,serve her ,bow down to her...
2006-09-15 06:35:34 · answer #11 · answered by BEERBELLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋