2006-09-15 06:26:22 · 14 answers · asked by findinforest 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes,, they are,,
But only them and us can tell, not anybody...
But still depends on their family's background,,, how they grow up.. etc..etc..
Many people now end up in divorce because they were not actually inlove,,, they just pretended to be in love when in fact what interests them is only SEX,,,, SEX... AND SEX. no not love..
And that is why,,, most of them separated,, because there was no lovemaking...LOVEMAKING is different from having SEX..
I was 19 then ans she was 17,,, now we have 5 children and 14 grandchildren and 35 years of ups and down married life...
Mutual love and respect matters a lot..
Good luck and God Bless.
2006-09-15 06:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by yulnores 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got marrried since I was ninteen years old. That was almost four years ago and things are great. Couple have arguments... conflicts... disagreement. Whatever you want to call it, it happends. The reason couple get divorce and break up is because they give up on their relationship and they don't compromise and be strong... not because of how old they are. I see old people get divorce all the time... I mean 50th and up even. Married isn't a fairly tales or anything easy. It takes work at times and most people (that get divorce) don't want it to work. Remember, being young doesn't mean life is a mistake... sometimes being young is great. Life is still fresh and we are more acceptance to learn and we have hope. I know I love my husband and sometimes we have arguments... that doesn't ean we would give up are lives together and want to move on. We are one person... not two people. When one of us fall and fail on things in life, we reassure, comfort and be there for each other. If one is selfish... it doesn't matter they are 18 or 45, divorce is a solution to make any lives better.
If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?
2006-09-15 13:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by xp office 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's any certain age that will ensure a marriage will last. It really depends on the maturity and commitment both involved have. Marriage is a union of 2 people with their own unique ideas, beliefs and habits. I would say (from experience) to be sure that the person you choose isn't only the one you love but also a good friend who shares your ideas and goals in life. It is a great thing if both people are truly commited not only for the good times but through the trials and tribulations too.
2006-09-15 13:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend of three months and I are talking engagement. Heres how i feel about it: date someone for 5 years, get married, get divorced, or date someone for 5 years, get married, be happy or date someone for 5 years, and never get married. OR date someone for 3 months, get married, get divorced, or date someone for 3 months, get married, be happy, or date someone for 3 months and never get married. Its all the same. you cant predict whether a marriage will last or not based on how long you guys were together before the marriage. You just have to follow your heart and do what you feel is right for you at this point in your life. Good luck!
2006-09-15 13:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by nicekitty_meeooww 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in an ideal world we'd all meet the partner of our dreams late 20s/early 30s, get married and have kids. we all want someone to tell us how to live our lives, but there's no user manual.
the question also depends on what marriage means to the individual. outside of religious belief it is a predominantly a pledge of committment and love, but at the same time a strict legal contract. i think use it to your best advantage. imagine you are totally in love with somebody but they cannot be a resident in your country, where you need to remain, because of immigration laws. if you needed to marry them for the legal status, would you do it? at any age? i would.
2006-09-15 13:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by kosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no ideal age. Everyone finds the person they think is the 'one' at different ages. I think late after 25 is a good place to start because by then you know who you are as an individual and who would add to your life..
2006-09-15 13:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are stupid for marrying way too young.
They're just starting out in life, they've moved away from mommy and daddy, and then they ruin all that by getting hitched?
Should have just stayed at home and stayed in school because they obviously didn't learn anything.
2006-09-15 13:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the people that are involved you will know if it is the right time or not my sisters both have been married to their high school sweethearts for 20 plus years and they are still together and they got married young one right out of high school
2006-09-15 13:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by pebblez3868 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say late 20's early 30's. that way you are old enough to be more rational and patient with each other and the children and you still have enough energy to chase after the kids too.
2006-09-15 13:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a few years, if it doesn't work out during those years, why waist getting married if it wont last.
2006-09-15 13:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by ebertlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋