I found my husband with a girl?

Question

i was 3 months pregnet and saw him with a girl they were just talking but to this date i cant get over it what should i do

Answer 1

Talk to your husband and find out what is going on. Then you take actions. Take care.

Answer 2

If they were just talking and he wasn't touching her and doesn't call her or go out with her now - I don't see the problem. Does he get jealous when you talk to other men? Trust is a big issue in any relationship and if you don't have trust your relationship is doomed to fail. Perhaps it has something to do with the hormonal roller coaster your body is experiencing at the time. If he was just talking -he wasn't doing anything wrong...if you think he's cheating on you perhaps you should communicate with him in a calm manner that his being friendly with other women makes you feel insecure and together you might be able to come up with a way to resolve this issue.

Answer 3

I find it interesting that mostly men have answered so far. But I am inclined to agree that you should try to get all the details before making any decisions.

I am a terribly jealous person and have known my husband since we were kids. There is nothing he can hide from me, i know him too well. But found a phone number in his pocket ...suspicious.... It turned out to be daycare owners new cell phone #.

Don't jump to conclusions. Especially if you are pregnant. You don't need the stress.

Answer 4

let me say this

trust your gutt
a women always knows when something is wrong

i would hire someone or get a friend and or talk to him and her both

and if there is really nothing going on he should be angry or defensive that is a guilty sign

if he is your man why was he talking to some other woman
what were they talking about

your not crazy either and dont let anyone tell you your paranoid

you know if you should worry

if it doesnt feel right it probably isnt

Answer 5

*pregnant

Ask him again. Tell him it's still bothering you. If you don't believe his story then ... he probably wasn't just 'talking' to her. A woman's instinct is one of the realest things she can trust. Do something about it cause it will just keep haunting you. I wonder if you had suspicions before your pregnancy. It's almost natural to be suspecting your man of cheating because of the emotional roller coaster you're growing through. Hopefully you didn't have any insecurities before you were pregnant. Nevertheless, you might just be the jealous type.

Answer 6

He was actually talking to a girl!! I'm sorry but that sounds like a personal problem within yourself. Try a little trust. If that's all you have to worry about your doing pretty good.

Answer 7

You need to talk about it with him and then decide if you can trust him. becasue thats what this is about. trust. My guess is this isn't the first thing that has happened that has made you question the trust you have in your hubby. If talking to him about this doesn't work then see a marriage counceler about out. But you have to do someting or it will fester and will ruin your marriage.

Answer 8

Ask him about it! He'll either be straight with you and tell you it's nothing to worry about, or he'll try to cover up something. But if you never ask, you'll always worry. It could be absolutely innocent, like she was asking for directions or something. Give him the benefit of the doubt. He's your husband.

Answer 9

Not enough info. That being said you would have been hormonal and after pregnancy held those feelings over unless you are still pregnant, then it will be about three months later that you will get over it.

But without enoug info, who knows.

Answer 10

stop being paranoid, unless you have sufficient evidence that there is something going on. He may be gushing over you to his friend.

And when you say "found" do you mean you were stalking him, because you've seen desperate housewives one to many times?

I wouldn't talk to him about it quite yet, I'd wait a bit to observe his behavior. This may just be in your imagination.