I finally talked to my husband he says he dont wanna divorce and he cant wait until i'm back at home because the longer i've been gone the worse things got. his excuse for not picking up the phone is that he never has anything good to tell me. I finally talk to his mother to. But i think they are hiding something from me. i told my husband to please let me know if u want a divorce. he says he dont and afraid that i'm going to leave him when i get home. He did'nt expect me being deployed was going to affect alot of things. he still does not be honest about small things
2006-09-15 06:10:48 · 4 answers · asked by sweetsensationalc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
FIND OUT ALL THE FACTS FIRST.
HONESTY AND COMMUNICATION ARE #1 PRIORTIES IN A MARRIAGE.
2006-09-15 06:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,you dont sound happy and confident about your husband,there is a sense of loss of trust amongst you guys and thats the foundation of every realtionship....you need to sit and chat with yourself first,only if these things are in place when it comes to your husband,go ahead or else just move on and put a stop here befoe things worsen!!good luck!!
2006-09-15 13:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably doing something he shouldn't be, but wants the stability of marriage too. He wants to blame what he's been doing on the fact that you have been gone. Doesn't sound good to me.
2006-09-15 13:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just leave him. he sounds like a jerk. if you stay with him you guys need to get major counseling or you will just end up divorced later.
2006-09-15 13:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋