We, the parents do not get along, mostly fight about her two daughters, I have never agreed with her chille rearing, and neither have been taught respect..We live good life upper middle class..
many luxuries, she does not work...have not kissed in 5 years...what to do....
2006-09-15 06:01:24 · 8 answers · asked by judogary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
counseling...
2006-09-15 06:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by Jbean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn that flame again and make her think(that may she can lose you( if is not too late). Make a woman friend call you at home. Send your self a gift with a woman name on it. Invite a friend to dinner and lie the bill in the table. Wen a woman smell another woman, believe me she will wake up, if she loves you if no forget it.
She have to teach respect to you and the daughters have to fallow her. I teach my child to respect my new husband(you have to respect others, always). But still the case of our fights. Children are very intelligent and for example mine start arguments to separate us both. Because she think that if (my new daddy go away I will have mommy for me only and forever). I discover this and she started at 4. So I stop her game teaching her that she have to have the same respect for him than for me. 1 woman's turn off is a guy that fights with our children's or argues. So treat this two child's like angels even if are demons. Then talk to your wife about it, explain the situation. Don't just walk away and let her with 3 children and no support. <--- that will be evil. Tell her to change or you will go away, tell to find a job. If is too late go away of that relationship. But do it on steps other wise your children will always remember you because you walk away and live Mommy alone with them and no support.
She will find a job if she really think you will go away.
2006-09-15 13:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have taught them a lesson long ago,, and not wait for the 8 years...
But always better late than never..
You are the one working and you have control over all the finances, use it as your power over them...
If she will not follow or obey your rules,,, find another girl who will give you children and another life..
I know you love her,, for you to swallow all your pride in that 8 years..
But that is too much..
You are an angel,,, damn you are so good..
I cannot be like that if I were you..
Good luck,,, GOD Bless
2006-09-15 13:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I also been married for 2 years, together for 5 years at the first 2 were amazing in every way. now i am filling for a divorce cuz i tried to do everything to fix it but you cant clap with one hand. my husband and i sleep in different rooms i am dying for human and patient intimacy but he does not want..went to therapy,, alanon..church cuz i wanted to save my marriage the bottom line is ask your self did i do every thing to make work? or is it worth it to feel like we both do..look in your heart and u will get the answer.. we have 3 grown kids
2006-09-15 13:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Dove4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for ya. I wish I had some words of wisdom. I wish you the best.
2006-09-15 13:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then why are you guys still together,either you talk about it and work towards it or just part ways!!good luck!!
2006-09-15 13:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it, either it changes or it's over
2006-09-15 13:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by exodus64_1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please stop fooling yourself. it's over and you know it. you have one life- make the best of it.
2006-09-15 13:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by cindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋