My Boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. He cheated on me twice. He cried and said he would never do it again. He's getting a little better in the relationship, but i don't know if i can trust him.
2006-09-15 05:53:45 · 18 answers · asked by ;-D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Damn girl you must feel pretty disparate. 2 out of 3 inmates return to prison. People very seldom change. They won't just because they say they will. If anyone ever accepts a lover back after cheating ... counseling should be a prerequisite. They ain't gonna get it by themselves.
2006-09-15 06:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but I think the same. If you can't trust him, you can't have a good relation with him. Even if you want to trust him you will always think about him cheating you. When he will be out with his friends you will suffer thinking he is cheating you.
The best think you can do is to leave him. Explain him that you don't trust him anymore (twice!!!! comon!!) . At first it be hurt but im sure you will find somebody that will respect you and love you as you deserve.
'cause you know what I think? If two people are happy they don't need to go with anybody else....
2006-09-15 06:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by Monika H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Errmmm cheated twice and u only been together a year???? not much to base a relationship on chick. Trust is what holds a relationship together. He cheats and cries......doesn't sound too solid to me....sorry!!!
As the saying goes:-
Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me
2006-09-15 05:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by janey190369 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you have an agreement to be exclusive? If so, he's already broken that trust at least twice (that you know of) and he's playing on your emotions so he can have his cake and eat it too. If exclusivity is important to you, you obviously cannot trust this guy. Find someone who is interested in that type of dating arrangement.
Frankly, if you're not married and you are careful, I say get out there and enjoy life.
2006-09-15 05:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't have taken him back the second time. I am sure you are a very good looking girl and have a nice personality. Find someone you can trust.
2006-09-15 05:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the main factor for the smooth movement of relation.....and above all frankness , sharing u'r feeling with the person.tell him what u have in mind .. may be in future he may always feel u'r words while planing to cheat u.
2006-09-15 06:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by krakra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I married a cheater & you have to make the choice of what you want to do.I love my husband but I had to give my relationship to God cause it's hard to get over the past by yourself. You will always think about it but God will give you the chance to see that we all make mistakes & he gives us chances time & time again. "But" that doesn't mean that you should stay if it reoccurs over & over again. Just keep in mind we all make mistakes& then we learn from them.
2006-09-15 05:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt be with someone if u cant trust them.. It just wrecks the relationship even more.
2006-09-15 05:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have dumped him the first time he cheated.
2006-09-15 05:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by womanofthefire80 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you don't have trust in relationship then it really isn't a good one, get rid of him
2006-09-15 06:02:22 · answer #10 · answered by stormykathrynserenity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋