Ok has anyone one been thru alot of bad luck lately because this been going on for the past month i been having bad luck with my b/f he acts like since he has 2 jobs and school that he needs to treat me unfairly which i dont think thats what it is i think he likes someone else but i ask him if he wants to be with me and he says yeah but i just dont know then im having problems with my friends being bitchy and its really getting on my nerves some of them wont even talk to me then you have one thats pissed off cuz i caught them in a lie so they told me i was fat and to go commit suicide and its like everyone is treating me like **** im just having bad luck right now is anyone else going thru this and if so or not can someone please help me with this situation cuz i dont know what to do anymore esp about the b/f bcuz i tried talking to him about it but it didnt do anything but made it worse i dont know maybe hes just stressed i pray thats what it is and i pray he acts normal again with me
2006-09-15 05:49:56 · 7 answers · asked by lisalisa77018 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i listened to everyone when they said just to leave him alone or do this and do that but it mad it worse it was all good til i listened to people then thats when it started going down hill with my b/f i shouldve just listened to my heart and next time i am gona listen to my heart instead of my friends and other people bcuz he use to treat me perfect until i did what they said to do
2006-09-15 06:29:53 · update #1
it's possible that u are unhappy w/ ur bf, and that leads u to become Less able to control ur anger or emotions w/ ur friends and other aspects of ur relationship.
the thing is, it all stems from you. u cannot force anyone, not even ur boyfriend, to "act a certain way". *but*, u Can control how YOU act, and react to situations. so, instead of allowing someone to treat u badly and taking it, first make sure u take care of yourself; ur mind, ur body, ur attitude, the way u learn and experience and grow. THEN, u will be able to see more clearly, what is Good in ur life, and what is Bad. and since u are working to make urself Feel good, Look good, be Smart, Open minded, u can Choose who is really worth being friends with. it's not about thinking ur all that, but it's making sure you are a good person, and then wanting good people in ur life. whoever helps to make a Positive, Healthy situation for you will be an indicator that they are worth being friends w/. if they stab u in the back, lie to you, how is that showing you that they are good friends? and saying nasty things like ur fat, or commit suicide? that is NOT being a good friend.
since u are unhappy and negative right now, ur friends feel they have a "right" to look down on you. but if u were happy, smart, positive, caring, etc, then even if they are mean to you, they can't say that u did anything wrong. and so, i think it all stems from your attitude about yourself. the better u feel about urself, the easier it will be to see who really Loves you and Cares about you, and who is using you or treating u negatively. good luck
2006-09-15 06:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing in luck. Things happen for a reason. Choices cause outcomes. Sometimes things do not go our way even if we do right. It may be to take us in a different direction, to build strength or tell us to change how we see think, act or live.
2006-09-15 05:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shud leave ur b/f .. so he cud learn a lesson .. u def can find someone better .. and also leave the frends who make rude comments to u like that .. u dont deserve to be treated like that .. knows wuts best and move on .. listen to ur heart and intuition
2006-09-15 05:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what is going on in his life it gives him no reason to treat you like that. If your not happy move on.
2006-09-15 06:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the last part of your question with what you need to do. Pray!!!
2006-09-15 05:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by womanofthefire80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck will come when u get rid of this freak.
2006-09-15 05:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and find someone who appreciates you.
2006-09-15 05:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋