I need major help. Well here it is. I'm with my daughters dad for 2years now but I'm wondering if would still be with him if it wasn't for our daughter. I love him but that doesn't mean we should be together. We fight all the time and its not good. Also my best friend of 14 years who I dated awhile ago wants to be with me and I'm very confused cause I love him aswell. My current man treats me like a queen (when we aren't fighting). And my best friend tries his best and he is someone I can talk to about anything and he normally never gets mad. I love them both but they both have their faults!! HELP please!
2006-09-14 11:07:42 · 6 answers · asked by higginslove3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Think clearly and chose wisely. Happiness does come every day.
2006-09-14 11:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make a choice and realize that no one is perfect. Stop thinking about all the "what if's" and realize that neither one of these men is going to be the perfect guy at all times - they both have faults. I would recommend staying with your current man because you have a family with him and are currently with him. You can repair the relationship and work through those things that bother you. Why not recommend counseling to him and tell him you want to get past all the arguing. If he refuses to enrich your relationship then it might be time to think about moving on, as fighting is no good for anyone.
2006-09-14 18:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone fights in a relationship. The feelings you feel are, only in my opinion, when you have these fights? Love is a strong emotion..loving two men? My guess is that you only love one of them and the other one is just that, a friend. Your friend is not in a real boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with you? would he be as understanding then? It's always different on the other side, not greener, just different.
2006-09-14 18:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by marie34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 15 and i would hate for my mom to leave my dad for someone else. No matter who your with youre always going to fight after living with each other for a while so.. and if he treats u like a queen you should deff. keep him
2006-09-14 18:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with the father of your daughter if he is willing to be with you - its the best thing you can do for yourself and your child. good luck.
2006-09-14 18:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by arewa247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work it out with your baby daddy....stop being selfish think about that children
2006-09-14 18:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by Imrickjamesbeotch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋